Q&A article: All About Sex; How to know who to have sex with, how to communicate in bed, how to be a *GREAT* lover
http://su.pr/2SUoXa

I am extremely scared of having sex.I think it will hurt a lot and I cant bring myself to have intercourse inspite of repeated attempts.What do i do?

Answered here:
http://su.pr/2SUoXa

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Love without conversation is impossible.
-Mortimer Adler

Q&A article on how to find your Dream Job; how to plan, how to act, and how to use the Law of Attraction to create it!
http://su.pr/703o9I

I want to get married.All my friends are settled.I feel like I am lagging behind.Like my life's on a hold.HAte the feeling.:(

Answered here:
http://su.pr/9DGqWU

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Best Life 2010 Day 117: WATCHMAKER!

I posted this up on my Facebook profile:
Ok, so for those of you who want to know what I am REALLY like inside:
This is the motion version of my favorite chapter of my favorite (comic) book of all time: WATCHMEN
This is the story of my favorite character Dr. Manhattan (who's up on my vision board) talking about his life; the story bounces around since he can see his own future and past simultaneously.
I literally watch this dvd every single night before bed; Best story *ever*.
(Might be weird seeing chapter 4 before 1-3 though, LOL O=)
*UNFORTUNATELY * it is only visible in the United States =(
http://ping.fm/MtzcV

You can google search Watchmen motion comic chapter 4 and maybe you can find it in your country. Or rent it, or read it; it's GREAT.

Anyway I had a good day; got some writing done (see links below) had some GREAT questions come in to http://ping.fm/82uoS and I also got my Facebook custom URL setup for my fan page www.facebook.com/bdavewalters which is a little easier to share with people.

I want your opinion on something; if you read this far, I care what you think!
I am toying around with doing a live show once a week, either online video through ustream or a online radio show through blog talk radio.
My questions are:
1.Should I do a live show at all, or are you already getting plenty of me.
2.What should be my topic? I'd like to do deeper level spiritual /religious stuff then I get to do now
3.When should I do it? I have people all over the world, so no time will work for EVERYONE, but what time (PST) is probably best?
Let me know!

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/fwhPW

Why do you charge money for the videos on peacelovemoney when you do this only to help people.Just inquisituve.

Because this is what I do for a living, as well.
Writing and Coaching are how I provide for my family; but if I have the ability to help someone who isn't able to pay, I do.
I tend to pull 12-16 hours, and about 99% of my efforts are unpaid!

So if someone has a question, I answer it; the book, videos, pdfs and podcasts up on peacelovemoney.com are generally more detailed than the things I write here or on the Examiner, and still priced pretty dang cheaply.

If someone wants step by step help on a specific issue, or to work with me one on one, then they can take me on as a Coach (as many people have). O=)

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HELLO HOW ARE YOU I JUST WANT TO ASKS I HAVE BEEN DATING A GUY FOR 1 YEAR NOW AND I WANT TO GET MARRIED AND HE HAS TALKED ABOUT MARRYING ME A LOT BUT NO RING YET SO I BOUGHT A VISION BOARD AND PICKED OUT A RING, WEDDING DRESS AM I ON THE RITE PATH.

Yes, you're on the right track, but you should probably read this, too: http://su.pr/9DGqWU

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Is it okay to have Sex with someone you dont love?

Answered here: http://su.pr/9DCF1X

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Q&A: She's in love with a narcissist, but his lies and abuse are too much; can she help him? Shoud she even try?
http://su.pr/2dGuvl

Q&A Article: Is it ok to have sex with someone you don't love?
http://su.pr/9DCF1X

My new article on how not to let things bother you, how to get over negative people, and how to make every day GRAND!
http://su.pr/2psttA

The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases.
-Carl Jung

Any advice on dating a widow(er)?

Answered here:
http://su.pr/2uOjRT

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Best Life 2010 Day 116: Full Moon in Scorpio

So I was weird and tense all day today; I only did one article (after deciding at 1:30 am to skip the next one =)

After having strange conflicts with friends, and talking people through knock down, drag-out brawls with their significant others, I looked up what was going on with the planets.

FULL MOON IN SCORPIO!

Basically means everyone is going to be crazy, tense, and mean for 2 more days; but now that I know what is going on, I can tap into and use it to my advantage; like hooking up a turbo booster.

Funny thing though, Lexi is a Scorpio, so she was in a great mood all day; cuddly and loving, while everyone else was going out of their minds, hehehe.

So a high energy and bumpy day, but still a good one.
By the way, I posted a new video today on how to make EVERY day good!
http://ping.fm/Qerw9

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/LoQWZ

Q&A Article on how to get started dating a widow/er; can you compete?
Is it work the trouble?
http://su.pr/2uOjRT

I freed a thousand slaves I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves.
-Harriet Tubman

I freed a thousand slaves I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves.
-Harriet Tubman

Best Life 2010 Day 115: Every day is good!

I shot a video tonight that will upload tomorrow about how to make every day good, so keep an eye out for it. Well, realistically I'm sure I'll link it here, too O=)

Today was a good day; but I had a pretty big break through:
I had a meeting for the insurance business today, but I just DID NOT WANT TO GO; I don't want to do that stuff anymore at all, honestly.

And normally, I'd have dragged myself out and made the most of it, but you know what? I didn't go.
So I guess that means I am ALL IN to coaching, writing, and pursing TV as my primary vocation these days!

Well...if an insurance deal comes along or gets handed to me, I'll still do it; as the Wu-Tan Clan says: Cash rules everything around me, C.R.E.A.M., get the money! Dollar dollar bill, y'all! O=)


B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/94QFK

I hope this doesn't weird you out in any way, but here we go: I want to attract a guy like you. How do I do that?

No, it doesn't weird me out (unless your name is Manne), I think it's flattering!

Until I get my cloning machine up and running, then this will have to do: http://su.pr/AInw8o

Ask me anything

Jesus and Buddha, their sayings compared; Or, meeting with the Masters
http://su.pr/1l9uv4

There is a woman at the beginning of all great things.
-Alan Bleasdale

Im in debt after my ex ran up the bills in my name without me knowing , even tho im paying it off slowly . Despite using LOA and Abundance its still very slow (3 yrs ) to get rid of debts .Any tips or ideas ?? thanks in advance

My #1 question is:
have you forgiven him for what he did?
Forgiving him doesn't mean what he did was ok (it's not); it means that you are releasing your own negative energy surrounding the situation.
Nothing good can come to you while you still hold anger in your heart...and if you are still angry, you haven't forgiven him.

Once you are clear, then you will create the space for the Universe to bless you; until then there is no room for blessings AND resentment.

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Q&A: “I'm constantly wondering when am I ever going to get married myself; how do I stop it?”
http://su.pr/9DGqWU

Best Life 2010 Day 114: Breakthroughs

I figured out what it is that is bothering me:
You know how I said things aren't growing as fast as I'd like them to?
The fact is: they ARE growing; it was my own choice to decide that it wasn't 'enough' and to allow it to bother me. So now, I choose to be grateful for every single person I get to reach with my work, but it 10 or 10,000,000.

Once I knew that, I was free.

Although, in the process of writing to reach those people, I stayed up way too late so this is a short one! A good day; brunch with friends, errands, and a trip to my favorite book store. A good Sunday, ready for a good Monday; the only kind I have! O=)



B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/miCzj

Why does everyone want to pretend to be what they are not? What is the psychology behind it?

Answered here:
http://su.pr/1IahzF

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Q&A Article: "Why do people pretend to be something they are not, what's the psychology behind it?"
http://su.pr/1IahzF

She nags, complains, and worries all the time that he is going to leave her; what can she do to stop it from happening?
http://su.pr/1Dw5jc

How to avoid turning into your mother or father, and how to express yourself properly in your relationships:
http://su.pr/ANN1Yg

Sometimes dreams are wiser than waking.
-Black Elk

Best Life 2010 Day 113: A Strange Place

Again, in a continuing effort to follow my own advice, I sat down and reevaluated what I want, and where I'm going.
And I have to say, I didn't get a ton more clarity (beyond what I already had); but I didn't stress about it. I'll think more, tomorrow.

I posted a video on how I should approach my writing / posting; if you haven't weighed in on it yet I'd appreciate your feedback: http://ping.fm/m4FEn

I went out to watch a fight tonight, but the place I went wasn't showing it; so I ended up wandering around a bit with friends, and alone. Because of that, though I ended up writing late and it's even later now, so...off to sleep! O=)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/3UTwF

A family member was recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I find myself being sucked into her cyclone of depression and anger. How can people remain stable, positive and loving toward family with mental illnesses? -Rachel M.

Answered here: http://su.pr/2Tz6PV

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How to stay happy, loving, and positive dealing with relatives; Or, the meanings we apply to things and how to fix them http://su.pr/2Tz6PV

Her boyfriend is fun and outgoing with his friends, but boring and introverted with her; is there anything she can do?
http://su.pr/82vPhZ

I have been dating a guy for nearly 3 years and we are living together. Is it possible for someone to be incapable of emotional intimacy?He is the life of the party at work and around his friends.At home he is a bump on a log.He sleeps on the couch,etc.

Answered here: http://su.pr/82vPhZ

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Every one rushes elsewhere and into the future, because no one wants to face one's own inner self.
-Michel de Montaigne

Best Life 2010 Day 111: Something is amiss....

Not quite sure what the deal is; just sort of woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.

Actually I know precisely what it is, but I already whined a few days ago, so I'm all done with that. At any rate, suffice it to say that some things aren't going how I'd like, but plenty of other things are going better than expected, so I'll choose to focus on that instead.

Got to spend some time with the family today; I punched out the articles and we went out to dinner and ice cream; a good time was had by all!

Funny story: it's like 9 pm right now and I'm going to bed!
I'll get some rest, and tomorrow I'll be a tiger again . O=)

Day 321: April 23, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 112: I'm a tiger again!

So I tried to go to bed early last night, but Lexi had other plans and woke me up with a kick in the head around midnight.
I have been bummed since my last few articles weren't as popular as I'd like (in terms of clicks) so I started snooping around the most successful pages and learned a few new tricks. One of which was shorter articles more frequently.

Seriously, the top people write 3-7 short articles A DAY!
I don't know if I'll ever be that high a volume, since it takes a bit more thought to do what I do than to write about Twilight or Celebrities hooking up!

So if you see my volume increasing, that is why; I was worried about it being 'too much' at one point, but I realize people read what interests them and ignore what doesn't, no big deal, right?

Looking forward to the weekend; but like I have said before, because of our schedules the weekends are just 2 more days to us.

I both do, and don't, work every day of the week! (=O=)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/1mbxu

I have split recently with my partner of 12 years. He demands to know what goes on in my life and who I am seeing. I don't want to share my life with him anymore but he gets really angry with me if I don't. How do I draw a line w/out making him angry?

Answered: http://su.pr/2xXABr

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She broke up with her boyfriend, but he insists on knowing what she's up to; how can she stop it without upsetting him?
http://su.pr/2xXABr

Her boyfriend doesn't want to get married after 9 years together...is there anything she can do? http://su.pr/16hmqw

Spirituality Q&A: how to deal with fear, doubt, and insecurity in romantic relationships: http://su.pr/879ffh

I recently realized that when I'm in love,I worry so much,I have so many fears,that even when my boyfriend had to go away for ONE weekend I suddenly became unhappy!how do u REALLY get to that point of being happy on your own and getting over worries/fears

Answered here: http://su.pr/879ffh

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How do I get over the pain & rejection from my boyfriend not being ready/not given it any thought to getting married after 9 years of being together?

Answered here: http://su.pr/16hmqw

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Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway.
-Mary Kay Ash

YOU ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU! I stumbled upon your website while looking for a life change quote. I watched two of your videos and it made me feel better about myself. I'm not 100% yet but I am working on it. How do I reach you to do a one-on-one chat?

Facebook is the best way to find me, by a wide margin: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000564957891&ref=profile

There are a few other ways as well; which you can (mostly) find here:
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters

Ask me anything

Best Life 2010 Day 111: Something is amiss....

Not quite sure what the deal is; just sort of woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.

Actually I know precisely what it is, but I already whined a few days ago, so I'm all done with that. At any rate, suffice it to say that some things aren't going how I'd like, but plenty of other things are going better than expected, so I'll choose to focus on that instead.

Got to spend some time with the family today; I punched out the articles and we went out to dinner and ice cream; a good time was had by all!

Funny story: it's like 9 pm right now and I'm going to bed!
I'll get some rest, and tomorrow I'll be a tiger again . O=)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/a8Sux

What we see depends mainly on what we look for.
-John Lubbock

She loves him, but he doesn't want a relationship...is there anything she can do???
http://su.pr/2to7cy

Celebrating Earth Day 2010, why it's important to connect to the Earth and flow of Nature, and how to do it!
http://su.pr/2882em

Best Life 2010 Day 110: Backstage passes...so L.A.!

So I got to go down to see my friends in We Are The Fallen play the House of Blues in Anaheim; seems like forever since I was backstage!

The show was good, and a welcomed change of pace. And seeing my friends happy on stage performing, it's been too long.

Makes me wish for the days when we were all out on the road; they say they want me back again so who knows! I can write and post shows from the tour bus I suppose, hehe.

Just so you don't feel left out, here's a little Metallica for my metal fans out there: http://ping.fm/0UWRe

It was a good, but rushed day today; trying to get everything done before I got out the door was a challenge, but I like challenges. And, needless to say, today was much better than yesterday!

But like I always say: you don't have to be perfect, you just have to be better than yesterday. O=)


B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/YaTtS

Each one of us is an outlet to God and an inlet to God.
-Ernest Holmes

My new article on how to interpret Scriptures and Holy Books; what they say, what they don't, and how to apply it is up! http://su.pr/3nMd5E

I am in love with a person. He too loves me. But he doesnt express it the way I want. How do I make him do that ?

Answered here: http://su.pr/2uH5Vw

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My new article for a woman who's boyfriend loves her, but doesn't express it like she'd like; can she make him change?
http://su.pr/2uH5Vw

Hi , i've been dreaming every single day for 3 years now .About 14 of my dreams have come true , i dont know what to make of thesedreams are they like future warnings or premonitions ?? what do you think ?? Thanks in advance God bless Vonnie

I did an article and a video about this very thing:
http://www.examiner.com/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2010m4d2-Dreams-the-ultimate-teacher-Or-what-does-THAT-mean

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so a psychic told me i have had a hex put on me based on an online tarot reading she gave me.she told me to go out and buy an unhex kit to get rid of the bad luck spell.do u believe in this?i called a few metaphysical shops &they told theres no such thing

Bah.
Message me on Facebook and I'll get rid of it for you. =)
http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=100000564957891&ref=profile

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Best Life 2010 Day 109: Poopie Day

Well I, Mr. Positive, am about to whine...you ready?
Today *kinda * sucked. Examiner.com isn't paying me a referral fee they owe me, because they said the person filled out the application wrong, a deposit I was anticipating didn't show up, and I have a sinus headache so bad I think my right eyeball is going to shoot out of my head at any second.

Ok, I'm done; back to positive stuff! =)

Got two new articles posted, one that's an easy introduction to Tarot Cards, the other about dealing with workplace relationships and insecurity in general; you can find both at the links below.

Not a lot accomplished, but tomorrow I get to go back stage at the We Are The Fallen concert in Anaheim, so that should be pretty sweet.

You know what they say: no rain, no rainbows; and it just so happens that it rained today, too. Nice.
You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/f9ykS

My new article on how to deal with a workplace romance gone wrong, and a video on dealing with insecurity in general:
http://su.pr/8r7Bpr

Fortune cannot aid those who do nothing.
-Sophocles

An easy introduction to the Tarot; what it is, what it's not, how it works and what you can learn from using Tarot Cards http://su.pr/26tzF1

Best Life 2010 Day 108: First things first

It's an interesting thing, having so many opportunities.
I was debating whether I should focus on the book proposal for my non-fiction book, or getting my fiction writing samples ready in case the job with Blizzard materializes.
After some tremendous input from people I respect, I have decided to focus on the book proposal, and write the fiction if I get bored / stuck / writers block; basically I always have something to be doing now.

And realistically, I need something that is going to make some money, and statistically speaking, that's the book proposal, even though neither thing is guaranteed to pay off at all, much less pay off quickly.

Today was good, though; just have to keep moving forward.
Everything is proceeding according to plan! =)

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/WCPFo

The Laborer and the Snake

A SNAKE, having made his hole close to the porch of a cottage,
inflicted a mortal bite on the Cottager's infant son. Grieving
over his loss, the Father resolved to kill the Snake. The next
day, when it came out of its hole for food, he took up his axe,
but by swinging too hastily, missed its head and cut off only the
end of its tail. After some time the Cottager, afraid that the
Snake would bite him also, endeavored to make peace, and placed
some bread and salt in the hole. The Snake, slightly hissing,
said: "There can henceforth be no peace between us; for whenever
I see you I shall remember the loss of my tail, and whenever you
see me you will be thinking of the death of your son."


No one truly forgets injuries in the presence of him
who caused the injury.

Confidence is that feeling by which the mind embarks in great and honorable courses with a sure hope and trust in itself.
-Marcus Cicero

how can i stay focus in my study? tq

The best way to stay focused, is 1. to decide in advance how long you intend to study, before having a pre-planned break.
Then 2. decide what it is you intend to learn from the study session. Don't just 'sit down to study', have a goal of what you intend to accomplish.
3. Take your breaks when you plan them, but not for longer amounts of time then you had planned
4. Give yourself a reward for following your plan and investing the time.
5. Focus on how great it will be to get that good great, pass the test, graduate, get a job, and make some money.

Any time you get frustrated, look ahead to how great the future will be; and remember, the harder you work now, the bigger the pay off later. =)

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Is it ever possible to love two people at the same time ?

Answered here: http://su.pr/1Ce88x

Ask me anything

Is it possible to love two people at the same time?
http://su.pr/1Ce88x

My new article on how to change anything about yourself; any fear, phobia, bad habits, or memories in an instant is up! http://su.pr/1Jw8Rr

Best Life 2010 Day 107: No coincidences

First, I posted what I believe is my most powerful video so far; it will allow you to change ANYTHING (internal) about yourself; bad habits, fears, painful memories...anything.
http://ping.fm/lktrT

Apparently writing became a habit somewhere along the way, since I HAD to do it every day, even over the weekend!

Something amazing happened, though; I met the head of Production for Blizzard Games. Basically I met the man who does my dream job for my dream company. And get this: they might, *might *, be hiring writers in about a month or so.
I think I may have mentioned that I am not really interested in a staff writing position (high stress, low pay); but if a chance to work at Blizzard should become available, then hell yeah I'd do it!

I am doing so very many things these days; but the first one to start really paying will get the majority of my attention.
I must say, I am truly blessed; my life is pretty f'n rad. Not without it's difficulties, but rad nonetheless!

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/2eNsY

My new article about a woman who has driven her boyfriend away and wants to know how to get him back is up!
http://su.pr/ADf1tu

Best Life 2010 Day 106: Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow

Another strange thing:
I cut my coffee intake in half, and it makes all these late nights seem a whole lot longer, I can tell you that! =)

Another strange thing: I wrote an article responding to an abused woman who was trying to get over what her boyfriend had done to her, and I accidentally posted it under my Spirituality column instead of my Relationships column. An odd mistake that isn't like me to make; I can only assume someone saw it posted there who would have missed it otherwise, so everything for a reason.
I did repost it in the right place here: http://ping.fm/aGUOc

Which actually speaks to another point: I wrote an article on Saturday! I can't help it, writing has become a habit at this point and I *have * to do it.
Strange, I managed to get a degree in English without forming the habit before now, hehehe.

Now all I need to do is dig deep and get that book proposal done, and we're be ahead of schedule!

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/CnkNs

A somebody was once a nobody who wanted to and did.
-John Burroughs

An abused woman asks me how to deal with the pain her BF is causing her: http://su.pr/35HWlw

How do I get over the hurt feelings of having been beaten by my boyfriend of 6 years who was my supposed to be my best friend for 11 years???

Answered here: http://su.pr/35HWlw

Ask me anything

Best Life 2010 Day 105: Batman, Neo, and King Leonidas walk into a bar...

You know, I have managed to acquire some pretty dang cool experiences in my life.
Today was yet another one: I got to go to Warner Brothers and meet the people who make my favorite TV shows / DVDS (The Justice League), and I also got to see props from 300, Matrix, Dark Knight and Watchmen (4 of my top 5 movies of all time, but I have already gotten to play with Star Wars props). It was like God special ordered the ultimate play date for me, hehe.

In many ways I was kind of in a haze, like it was too much for my brain to take in. Seeing all the props, costumes, etc; I was walking around telling my friend where each thing was from in each movie and how they used it; a tour group stopped to listen to me explain how the did the Dr. Manhattan special effects in the Watchmen, LOLOL.

All in all, a great day; I hope you had one, too; and if not make tomorrow a great one instead!

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/fECeD

My new article on how to tap into your own psychic abilities and partner with the Universe to co-create your life is up! http://su.pr/6ygTWQ

My new article about a guy who had a girl cheat on her boyfriend with him, and is wondering how to do it again.... http://su.pr/2UFWRp

Best Life 2010 Day 104: Tax(ing) Day!

So, it's like 2:45 am so this will be short.
The INTERVIEW! Didn't happen, they never even confirmed the time and address =/.

Upon reflection, I think it was a start up that failed to get off the ground. A lot of the positions they were trying to fill were part time and internships, and when I spoke to them initially they didn't confirm the address then, which leads me to believe they were looking for a space.
Oh well, if they call at some point in the future I'll still be game to talk to them.

In the meantime, I got to spend some great time out with the family, which was a lot of fun but made late on my writing (which is why it's so late!)

Enjoy the new episode of All About You, it should be up by now; and the two new articles can be found here:
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO

Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/3KCav

My new article: "How do I let go of him when I'm in love with the sex?" http://su.pr/19z4Gg

My new article on meditation: what it is, why it's important and how to do it is up!
http://su.pr/32icKW

True religion is real living; living with all one's soul, with all one's goodness and righteousness.
-Albert Einstein

Best Life 2010 Day 103: Game Day Tomorrow...or is it?

Strange thing...I am supposed to have my audition tomorrow (Thursday) at 1 pm, but they have yet to confirm or give me the address yet! As of now, they have 12 hours to let me know, and we're in business, if not then I don't know what's up with that.

Ah well, either this will manifest or...something better will!
The only thing I can say for certain is I absolutely won't give up until I achieve my goals; not just getting on T.V., but all of it.

Today was a good day; went on a loooong and hot walk with Lexi, but it was good to get some fresh air. Yes, there are times I step away from the computer...but I still had chats going with Clients on my phone, lolol.

So far keeping up with the two columns has been pretty painless; today's relationship column was about a woman wondering how to be friends with her ex: http://su.pr/2L5D50

And, my Spirituality article on how to tap into the power of your mind to know the answer to any question, and create the life you want: http://su.pr/5F6JEV

Although remember, the relationship column (and the spirituality column soon) are question based; so if there is anything you'd like to know send it to me! http://ping.fm/owZQQ

You are great, and I love you! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/rEbjK

My new article on how to tap into the power of your mind so you can answer ANY question and create what ever you want!
http://su.pr/5F6JEV

When many work together for a goal, Great things may be accomplished. It is said a lion cub was killed By a colony of ants.
-Saskya Pandita

How do I separate caring for someone and clinging to a past relationship with that same someone? How do I learn to let go of the relationship while still caring for the person?

Answered here:
http://su.pr/2L5D50

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My new relationship article on how to give up a romance and salvage a friendship
(or is it even possible?)
http://su.pr/2L5D50

Best Life 2010 Day 102: Max Capacity

So I polled everyone on my profile, asking how many episodes of the show / articles I should do, and the consensus was what I was basically thinking:
As much as I can without going insane. =)

Basically I can't do more than 3 shows because of how long it takes them to process and upload. I can do 5 spirituality articles a week and I'll do relationship articles as often as I have questions; maybe 5 maybe less; I'll play it by ear.

I took Lexi and went down to see my accountant to do my taxes (came out alright!). His office is across the street form the airport, so every plane that came by she pointed at saying “plane, plane...oh wow! Where'd it go? Bye bye plane!” It was *priceless *. I called everyone I could to let them hear it over the speaker phone; it made my year seeing her so happy.

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/wHPvz

My new article on how to see the future is now up!
How shape it, control it, and give up being afraid of it
http://su.pr/2lArLK

He has achieved success who has worked well, laughed often, and loved much.
-Elbert Hubbard
(Two because I couldn't decide between them =)

Do not take life too seriously.
You will never get out of it alive.
-Elbert Hubbard

New Relationships article:
"He has kicked me out of his life and I don't know why; what can I do???
http://su.pr/1z0jSB

Best Life 2010 Day 101: Double Dose!

So, I know have *two * columns!
After some negotiating with the Examiner.com, I agreed to be the Los Angeles Relationship Communication Examiner!

The columns that were available Nationally were too narrow, things like 'bromance examiner' and 'friends with benefits examiner'; so if I wanted to talk about ALL aspects of relationships, I needed to have another local column.

I'll still be able to help people the way I'd like to, no big deal. =)

Another amazing thing happened: I found the Mrs. Looking at pictures of the dream house and deciding how she'd want to decorate, what room would be used for what; it was good to see her dreaming about it again.

You know through the ups and downs of life it can be hard to keep your eye on the ball; now that we are back in alignment, success is guaranteed.

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/efoDF

What do you think about Medium/Sidekicks?

Not only do I not know what that means, I googled it and still don't know what it means!

Tell me, and I'll decide what I think; LOL =)

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You just kicked my butt in the CHOOSE video. Thank you :) My question is: What is the trophy in the background of your videos?

Hmmm...let me check.
It's a 'rising star' sales award I won in 2006
It's funny because my little girl gets hypnotized periodically by the sparkle. She'll just point at it like "oh wow"! =)

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my husband and i are seperated and "trying" to work it out - although it is very one sided....sometimes i fear that if things were to work out, i won't feel comfortable being intimate with him anymore...like a bond has been broken..can it be repaired?

Answered here, as the very first entry of my Relationship Communication Column! http://su.pr/31ml0X

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My new RELATIONSHIPS column is now up!
A separated woman is trying to reconcile with her husband and isn't sure she....
http://su.pr/31ml0X

My new article on how to unleash your talents is up!
How to know what you're good at, why and how to let it out!
http://su.pr/1Xujtc

We are all full of weakness and errors; let us mutually pardon each other our follies - it is the first law of nature.
-Voltaire

Every night I go to sleep grateful. Every morning I awake to the same negative thought(s). I chase them away quickly, but is there a piece I'm missing that makes them re-appear daily?

2 things:
Repetition, and action!
The reason why I say that, is whatever you fear is very clearly deeply embedded in your subconscious if it comes out first thing in the morning, since just before sleep and just waking up are when it comes through the strongest.

Take the thing you fear, and figure out something you can do to prepare yourself. ANY action you can take to help you prepare for / fix / prevent the thing you fear.
And keep up your positive visualizations at night. Hit the fear from both sides (visualization and action) until it is totally removed. =)

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Best Life 2010 Day 100: DAY 100!!!!

Well, if you've been with me on this journey the whole way, I thank you.
And if you joined on anywhere sense, I thank you anyway!

I have to say, everything is coming together nicely.
Obviously I wish it were faster, but God is good, and everything will happen how it's supposed to happen.

It was a good weekend.
Charged my sleep batteries, figured out exactly what I want going forward.

There was some debate (again) about how much time to put into the business stuff, but the fact is my heart just isn't in it. I took my own advice and sat down to write it all out, and it was clear as day there on the paper. Or clear as black and white, as it were; LOL.

So I am pushing with my writing, coaching, and efforts to get on TV. Everything is moving in the right direction, and I trust God to sustain us through it.

And, if a business deal falls out of the sky I will still go do it.

Everything I ever wanted in life is starting to come together, and I thank God for it in advance =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/yLvGv

Man is free at the moment he wishes to be.
Voltaire

Best Life 2010 Day 99: Sleeping Beauty

Strange thing:
I woke up early for the like 6th day in a row, and something in my brain just clicked! I ended up falling asleep on the couch for like 5 hours! =O

So for those of you who ask if I sleep, apparently I do it once a week. The funny part is, I'd already planned on sleeping in, tomorrow. LOL.

Another strange thing, I just found out I haven't been receiving phone calls for the last few days; people would call and they'd hear it ring, but it never rang for me. No text message, nothing; strangest thing.

I was worried that I may have missed one of my call backs, but the fact is I wouldn't have missed anything I was meant to receive, so I release it to the Universe.

You know what? I think I'm going to bed early! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/uenJd

When you've done something you believe is wrong, how do you move beyond it?

First thing is you have to forgive yourself, since God already has.

Second, if you wronged a person (and they're aware of it), then you may or may not be able to make amends directly. Pending what happened, they may not be in a place to forgive you just yet, but as I said, it is *YOUR* forgiveness of you that matters.
If they don't know, and aren't continuing to suffer because of what you did, they you may be better off just keeping your distance from the person going forward. (Again, it depends on what happened).

And if there are memories that you just can't let go of, this will help:
http://www.examiner.com/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2010m1d17-Talk-6--How-to-get-rid-of-the-pain-of-the-past-Or-how-to-create-the-future

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Do you think that Money really is the key to happiness?

No, not at all.

Happiness comes from inside, it is not affected by outside forces, money included.

*BUT*

More money == more time and opportunities to pursue things you love, and help people around you, and that is pretty dang nice.
In the end, money is a multiplier; it gives you more of who and what you already are. =)

I have written quite a bit on the subject of money:
http://www.examiner.com/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2010m2d21-Ask-believe-receive-Or-The-Universal-Bank

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Don't you think if The Secret would be teached in School and from our Parents and such, wouldn't we have a Utopia. Besides, wouldn't some Jobs be dead, like Psychiatrist, because we dont "need" them anymore?

Yes I do think that; there was no such thing as mental illness in Hawaii before the missionaries arrived in the 1800s, since the Kahunas had a keener insight into human nature than exists even today. Same as in many Shamanistic societies where 'sick' people were taught to use their alternative perceptions to see into other worlds, rather than be labeled 'crazy'.

One of my long term goals is to develop a system of education that takes all aspects of human life and existence into account, instead of the system we have now that is designed to produce factory workers instead of whole and complete individuals. =)

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Hi Dave I went to go see a couple psychics. How much weight should I put into their insights? I've been to 2 in the past couple months for one major pressing issue. I have 2 different outcomes from 2 different psychics, lol. Which one should I listen to?

You should listen to yourself, and your own intuition and judgement.
Remember, the absolute best psychics in the world are at *best* 80% accurate.

Add to that, when you are paying the psychic it automatically throws the results into question, especially if the reading is TOO good, or TOO bad. The best they can do is act as advisors; another source of information that YOU drawn on to make the choice, not to have it made for you.

Message me the issue directly and I'll see if I can help shine some light on it. =)

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I have sworn upon the altar of God, eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man.
-Thomas Jefferson

I have a hard time making decisions because I have so much doubt. What can I do to be more sure of myself?

Believe it or not, it all boils down to not having enough self-love.

Because self love gives rise to confidence. Confidence gives rise to courage. Courage gives the ability to take risks.

Since in the end, you make the best choice you can and take action. If it doesn't work, you do something else; no big deal.
But you have to free yourself from fear; fear of failure, of other people's opinions, and anything else.

And all of that starts (and ends, really) with a healthy sense of self-love:
http://su.pr/726uK5

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Dave what are the other Laws of the Universe?

The Law of Attraction is 1/2 of 1 of 7 Universal Laws:
The Law of Mentalism
The Law of Correspondence
The Law of Vibration (the LoA is part of this law)
The Law of Polarity
The Law of Rhythm
The Law of Cause and Effect
The Law of Gender

I wrote a whole book about it, but I gave a quick overview of all 7 here:
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2009m12d16-Talk-1---How-God-thinks-Or-the-7-Universal-Laws

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I have been dating a man for 2.5 years and we have a baby together. His wife left him for someone else after 15 years and 3 children. He asked me out within 3 months. He is struggling with intimacy but swears it's the way he is and always has been. ??

Define 'struggling with intimacy'?
Does that mean there is something lacking in the bedroom, or he isn't very affectionate?

Either way, it may have been how he's always been, but tell him you need more and offer to work together to find a way for both of you to be happy.
Maybe he doesn't understand your needs and how to meet them; show him this:
http://su.pr/2LSta8

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Best Life 2010 Day 98: 10 steps forward, 2 steps back

So, the MMA column I wanted on Examiner.com was already taken; I could have had the option to write another local column, but now that I have gone National I don't want to writing 'just' in Los Angeles.
I'm a snob, I know.

I decided to add a dedicated relationships column instead; I am hoping they'll create the 'Relationship Coaching Examiner' for me; if not I'll be 'Relationship Angst Examiner'. (ok...a BIG snob =)

But my goal is, if I am going to write about relationships I want to be able to cover every facet of it; being single, dating, marriage, divorce, all of it.
Since I think you know everything I do, I do for a reason; these articles are fun and all but I still plan it out to advance me along my path.

Side note, since the whole point of this blog is to let you know what I'm doing towards making my 7 goals manifest, let me give you a peak behind the curtain.

I am a life coach, specializing in spirituality and relationships.
So, I am writing one column about spirituality, and about to have another about relationships; why? Because it establish me as an expert.

That's the reason I do the show, I am building a platform and name recognition. Now when I talk to networks about TV show hosting, I can say “I'm a nationally syndicated columnist and host of my own web series”; sounds a lot different then some guy who just walks in off the street, right?

Everything feeds into everything else. My show feeds the writing which feeds the books and podcasts (www.peacelovemoney.com, *cough cough *) which feeds the coaching, which hopefully will feed into TV and radio.

Understand?

So, the moral of this story is: figure out LOTS of ways to approach your goals. Hit it from all sides simultaneously until something breaks through. Since I can tell you, once I even get a toe in the door of working on TV, I'll kick it in the rest of the way! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/5AGc6

Nothing great will ever be achieved without great men, and men are great only if they are determined to be so.
-Charles de Gaulle

My new article on how to give up being a zombie, make a choice, and really start living your life is UP! =)
http://su.pr/69K3y0

How am I to help my daughter get healed from the genetic syndrome she was born with?

As I said before, there is no such thing as an incurable illness or injury. The first step is to know she CAN heal. To believe that her body has the Divine power to regenerate itself wholly, and give thanks to God / the Universe *in advance* for her healing.

There is more to it then that, though, more than I can say here; I did a full program on how to heal yourself and others:
http://www.peacelovemoney.com/5_Success_Library_B4WT.html

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Hey Gang
If you like my articles, please click subscribe up at the top; it affects my rankings and how much I get paid!
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What advice would you give a 40 year old woman that is single, unemployed & afraid? What encouragement could you offer someone who has not worked in 365 days? Loved in over 17 years? & that had never been appreciated while in the workforce?

Well, I have bad news, and good news.

The bad news is, all of these things are a result of that woman's thinking and beliefs.

The GOOD news, is that she can control that thinking and those beliefs to create a new and happy life at any time.
It may seem too good to be true, but it really is that simple:
http://su.pr/1OcJ3y

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On the Secret it's been told that your Body Cell regenerate and even rebuild every organs and whatsoever. That means we have a brand new "Young" body in within a year. How comes we are still getting old, since age has "no matter" for the cells.

Yes, it's true that every cell in your body has been replaced over the period of about 7 years (as long as 10 for some cells in the bones).
The reason why we age is toxins accumulate in our bodies causing imperfections in the cells, so they start to duplicate imperfect copies, which is why 'dis-eases' can continue through that period of time.
The movie 'What The Bleep Do We Know' talks about it, and is great all around anyway.

Personally, this is a big part of the reason you may have heard me say again and again that there is no such thing as an incurable disease or injury; your body really is going to rebuild itself anyway, so it's possible to have it build a new and healthy you.
I did a whole healing program about that very thing:
http://www.peacelovemoney.com/5_Success_Library_B4WT.html

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Best Life 2010 Day 97: I GOT AN INTERVIEW!!!!

So, there is a new digital cable network starting up here, and they are looking for people to fill in all the necessary roles, and I have an interview with them next Thursday at 1! Note, this isn't the one I sent the audition tape into, this is *another * one.

Maybe I'll get lucky and start a bidding war!

Also, I was expecting a deposit today, and it ended up being 3 times larger than anticipated! I was able to pay all my bills with money to spare.

If that's not a good day, I don't know what is!
Finding out I'll be able to host a TV show will be even better, though =)

Oh, and I almost forgot: my new article on how to understand personalities and be a mind reader...or at least seem like it:
http://su.pr/24N4AM

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/3CH2P

My new article on personality and how to be a mind reader...or at least seem like one! http://su.pr/24N4AM

If you've fooled (not sex) around with a friend's husband or wife, but you know it was a mistake, is there any reason to tell the friend? How does one make amends? I am deeply sorry, but do not want to make matters worse.

You know, you may not believe it but I am going to say do *not* tell the friend.

I say that because 1. it won't change what happened, 2. it won't improve your relationship (and probably end it), 3. it will (further) damage the relationship with her husband.

You probably need to back off from being around them both, though until you can cool off.
In the past, I never told on friends who were being unfaithful unless one of two things happened:
1. the significant other asked me directly, in which case I wouldn't like, or 2. my friend was cheating constantly and showed no sign of caring or stopping.

Assuming it was a one time mistake, put it behind you. If it's a pattern of behavior, point it out but be prepared to lose your friend in the bargain (I did...twice).

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From my tribe I take nothing, I am the maker of my own fortune.
-Tecumseh

What do you think about online dating sites.

I think they are *great*!

I met Charlene in 2002 on Lavalife.com, but Eharmony didn't exist at the time and I think may be a better fit now.

In the end, all online dating does is remove time and space from the dating equation, and allow you to know more about a person then they are cute and in the same room as you before you start talking.

I wrote about the pluses and minuses of online dating (and dating, period) here: http://su.pr/2Q6uTu

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Best Life 2010 Day 96: Youtube Views

So, I submitted my audition tape, and I know they watched it several times (based on the Youtube plays) so that is a positive sign!!!!

I know that I won't give up until I get a foot in the door, and once I do I'll kick it in; I have too many things I want to accomplish to wait any longer. Besides, I am over half way through my challenge, with lots of yards still to go!

Confession time: the new episode has been ready for days, but the article collection isn't ready yet. Tomorrow for sure. FOR SURE. =)

I did get my new article written, though: “The prison between your years; Or, when you believe”
http://su.pr/1a5I8u

Good news is on the way! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/BIDrD

My new article on Beliefs is now up!
How the limit and define you, and how to change them to create what you want!
http://su.pr/1a5I8u

All action results from thought, so it is thoughts that matter.
-Sai Baba

what's the happiest thing that has ever happened to you? :)

Lexi being born, hands down.
After that was getting married, after that earning my first Black Belt, after that, finishing my book. =)

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Can the LOA work to attract something negative into another's life? This thought is terrifying me, because everytime i read or hear something bad i always worry about it happening to my child. I am terrified that because i fear it so much it might happen.

Yeah, see the 'terrified' 'worry' and 'fear' that you are expressing is more dangerous than anything you read or hear.

Your child is healthy, happy, safe, loved, and protected.
Focus on that and everything else will be fine; worrying about what COULD go wrong is a surefire recipe if not for bad things to manifest, then for you to have a hell of a lot of unnecessary stress being afraid that something bad is going to happen!

And if you are interested in how to produce happy, confident children without burdening THEM with excessive fear, check out: http://su.pr/1AvI5X

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I don't know how to stop the negative thoughts! They're literally taking over my life,paralyzed by fear!

http://su.pr/1cY9s9

Also look at the links on fear and worry I posted in the response right before this one.

Remember, fear can only exist in the future, it is impossible to be afraid of something that is actually happening, only what you think might happen.
And choosing to focus on the negative potential outcome is just that: a choice.

Choose to focus on the pleasant things in your life instead; check out that article to see how. =)

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Best Life 2010 Day 95: THE DIE IS CAST!

With this blow, history is changed!
Or, at least I *hope * history is changed, lol.
After 3 days of work (and quite a lot of guidance and input from my acting muse, KC Kelly), I finally honed my audition tape into what I feel is perfection. Well, that's not true, I sure there are ways it could have been better; but I was completely satisfied, and I think I reached the point of diminishing returns, where to keep trying would have made gains in some areas, and losses in others.

But being the host of a major network TV show will be Sa-WEET!

So, it's in God's hands now!

Confession...I didn't post the new episode of All About You yet because my article collection isn't done and I want it finished before I do; I took a big detour into getting the audition tape done, so it's back at the top of my list, now.

I DID, however, get my article about WOMEN written and uploaded:
http://su.pr/2LSta8

I have decided I definitely want to add a second column that I write, just have to decide on what. I think I want to do Mixed Martial Arts, since I LOVE mma, and can probably get a much bigger overall readership then I do with my spirituality stuff. Examiner.com isn't really a hot bed of higher theological thought, it is more for the bragging rights of being national than anything.

So I love writing the spirituality column, but if I can add in a second fun (and probably more profitable) one, then good time!

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/AvlpS

My new article on WOMEN is now up!
How they think, what they want, and what to do and NOT to do to make them happy!
http://su.pr/2LSta8

Every man must do two things alone; he must do his own believing and his own dying.
-Martin Luther

In nature, the emphasis is in what is rather than what ought to be.
-Huston Smith

Best Life 2010 Day 94: Purple Haze

I got up earlier than usual and accomplished so very little!
I did get my new article up and published:
Clash Of The Titans, Or, the greatest stories ever told
http://su.pr/2U4kJ0

I worked all day on getting my audition video ready to submit for the show, but I couldn't get it quite right. And I turned it over to a friend I trust to tear apart and I'd do it again. I still have to work on it some more; it's a big deal so it's worth getting just right.

I guess I feel like I exerted quite a lot of effort with little to nothing to show for it. Oh well, tomorrow is another day! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/SH7Rw

My new article on Clash Of The Titans and how it applies to your life and the modern world is up!
http://su.pr/2U4kJ0

Truth is like the sun. You can shut it out for a time, but it ain't goin' away.
-Elvis Presley

If you could become any fictional character, who would you be?

Dr. Manhattan from the Watchmen, who is all knowing / all powerful.
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If not him, The Martian Manhunter, who is a shape-changing mind reader from DC Comics.

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Who and when was your first kiss?

Lakia Hall when I was 8 years old. =)

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When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

An aerospace engineer, I wanted to design space ships; that is until Nasa started laying them off. Then a vertebrate paleontologist, I wanted to study dinosaurs; but I didn't want to dig in the dirt in 110 degree+ heat.

Now, I want to be like *you* when I grow up! =)

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The bright colored shirts are nice, but I was partial to the "Mr. Rogers Sweater"... can we alternate? =))

Absolutely, I am running out of light colored shirts! =)

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What is the fastest, best way to manifest my soulmate? I know exactly the kind of person i want, i try to visualize but it's not manifesting. Any steps i can follow, or could you suggest an article/video that might be helpful?

If you are REALLY sure you know the type of person you want (and how to attract them), then this is what you need to know: http://su.pr/2Re9op

If, however, you aren't quite sure of the exact type of person you want, (or what you can do to find them) then this is the place to start: http://su.pr/AInw8o

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Best Life 2010 Day 93: Easter Quake

So, we got up early and went to do the church thing; and after that went to a friend's house to barbecue. We're all sitting on the back porch and someone says 'are we moving'? Sure enough, look inside the house and all the lights are swaying back and forth, rocking like we were on a boat or something.

Apparently a 7.2 earthquake hit near the Mexican border, but it was a fairly gentle swaying by the time it reached us, although it still made some people sea sick, lol.

Easter was good; good food, good friends, good times.

Oh, one big thing: I submitted my information to get cast to host a tv show on a major network, and they asked me to send in an audition video!
So I shot it and am going to send it in tomorrow (after it uploads) so wish me luck!
I have decided I REALLY want to be on tv/radio, so I'm not going to stop until that one manifests.

Things have certainly taken an unusual turn in 2010...best life, indeed.

The day tapped me out; calling it an early night as soon as I get this posted! =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/CpRFx

Best Life 2010 Day 92: Listening to my own advice

I think I've mentioned in the past, I am acutely aware of becoming a hypocrite; so I work hard to actually apply and live the advice I give out to everyone else.

So today, I put some thought into exactly what it is I want, and where my life is going. I think I told you that a year ago I hadn't really written anything significant, now I have written 2 books with a third in the works, not to mention my column. My coaching business is alive and growing http://ping.fm/OKqgR *cough, cough *.
Business opportunities are still coming in, but sadly it just bores me to tears now. I really should just dig deep and commit to making and saving some money, but putting any more time into really does excite me about as much as watching paint dry.

I think I shared with you that the lesson I got from my meditation during the Equinox was that I should focus on the contribution and not worry about the money; that's what I've been doing, and what I'll keep doing.

You are probably reading this on Easter Sunday; if such a thing is important to you, and even if it isn't: enjoy your day and may God bless you and yours!

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/UscMa

What are the most basic of things one could start doing to get on the road (& thought process) of being/thinking positive. Longtime worrier here, plus not the most positive person. Baby steps? Please tell what they'd be for me to start on the right path.

I'd say the first, second, third, fifth and twelfth steps are to learn to get a handle on your fear.
And this will help you do just that:
http://su.pr/1y8jHK

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Every watched the Movie The Matrix? What do you think of it? Do we live in a Matrix or is it Reality?

The Matrix trilogy is the finest trilogy ever made in the history of anything ever.
Would you like to know how I really feel? LOL

Yes, we definitely live in a world of illusions, but it's because of the limitations of our perception (until we learn to see past it); I don't believe we are in any way trapped, just not really paying attention. And as such, we don't see things as they are, we see them as WE are. =)

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Can you do the "Running Man"?

Of course...I'm black. =)

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How come psychics can't predict winning lottery numbers?

Like Yoda said: "Always in motion, the future is" =)

Seriously, psychic phenomena function through your subconscious and super-conscious minds. Numbers and literal thinking come from your conscious mind, which has to be shut off for your intuitive senses to function.

This is the same reason you can't read anything in a dream; the reading part of your brain is shut off.

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We are not held back by the love we didn't receive in the past, but by the love we're not extending in the present.
-Marianne Williamson

Best Life 2010 Day 91: Making up yards

I got TWO articles written today:
My new article on DREAMS: 
What they mean, how to understand them, and how to use them to solve ANY problem:

http://su.pr/4eTTGN
My new article on MEN:
How to understand men, how to talk to them, and how to know if he is interested, or NOT, and if he is *cheating* or not! 
“Understanding Mr. Right; Or, How to train your husband”
http://su.pr/AK0MfE

I have to shoot another episode of All About You early tomorrow so hopefully it will post in the evening; I didn't want to post on Easter since I am so used to posted early, but technically it would be right on time.

I also saw Clash Of The Titans, and I hate to say, it, but I was underwhelmed.
It was sufficient, but unremarkable; I give it a 7. The thing is, I walked into the theater giving it an 8 just for being Clash Of The Titans!!!!

Ah well, time to go back to waiting for Iron Man 2 =)

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/yDXv7

My new article on MEN is up!
How to understand men, how to talk to them, and how to know if he is interested, or NOT
http://su.pr/AK0MfE

What do you think of cheating in a relationship? Is it ever justified?

Nope.
Not justified, ever.
Never.
NOT EVER.

Since if you aren't getting what you need at home, it is time to roll on. Or maybe you and your partner can agree on a more...open relationship; it is the year 2010 after all =)

Of course, I am talking about actual physical engagement; not what you want to do, think about doing, or even (respectfully) talk about doing. I don't think a little flirting hurts anyone, as long as you both know it's just talk.

But actually laying with someone else while you are involved? NO.

Did I mention no? =)

Ask me anything

(cont) I was really feeling good, especially after the psychic told me there would be a good outcome.I was feeling positive & the outcome is devastating for me & my family.Don't know what I'm doing wrong with the LOA and how do you stay positiveafter this

I wrote an article about understanding why the Law of Attraction doesn't work sometimes: http://su.pr/1lo7lE

If I have to boil it down to one reason to stay positive, it is being negative is NOT helping.
And beyond that, while I don't know the details of your situation, you don't know that whatever happened isn't actually moving you towards a bigger blessing and you just can't see it yet.

The Law is always working, if you allow yourself to dwell on what you don't want, it's just going to bring more of it.

Keep your head up and stay strong, everything will work out for the best, I am sure of it. =)

Ask me anything

Four things do not come back: the spoken word, the sped arrow, the past life, and the neglected opportunity. ----Arabic proverb

My new article on DREAMS is up!
What they mean, how to understand them, and how to use them to solve ANY problem:
http://su.pr/4eTTGN

Best Life 2010 Day 90: HALF WAY POINT!

And man, do I have a LOT of yards to cover in these next 90! LOLOL
But I am still 100% resolute that everything is proceeding according to plan!

Today was weird; April Fool's Day as you know.
And I had planned not to prank anyone, but in a moment of weakness I changed my FB status from 'married' to 'single'. I changed it back instantly, but the flood gates were already opened, LOLOLOL. =)

I have a confession to make: today I got a whole lotta nothing done =/
I DID get All About You episode 30: CHOOSE posted though:
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=414311356577&ref=mf

I didn't even get an article written today I am ashamed to say; every time I tried to start something came up, and once I dug in my heels to do it, my computer crashed and I lost it!

So the plan is, get up and go see Clash Of The Titans tomorrow, come home and write *two * articles, which will be a first. But I am sure I am up to it!
And after that, did in and finally, finally, FINALLY finish my article collection.

And, if you are observing Passover or Good Friday, all my best to you and yours. And if you aren't, I hope you just have a good Friday, lol. =)

B. Dave Walters
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters

Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
-Kahlil Gibran

Best Life 2010 Day 89: Seriously...WTF =)

I STILL didn't get my article collection finished! >=O

Ok here is the thing:
It's like 200 pages, and I have to go through and insert new anchors and change all the links to point to the anchors so that the document is clickable, but completely self-sustained, right?

But man, that is WORK. It's not even hard it's just meticulous and time consuming.

In other news, I saw (500) Days of Summer and the Time Traveler's Wife
Both are good romances for totally different reasons; both are 'chick flicks' that a guy can stand watching, so if you are looking to compromise on something, there you go! =)

I cut back on my coffee consumption and I am tiiiired. I know I'm a machine, but coffee was my fuel! Cut that off, and I shut down early, hehe.

Oh, and I almost forgot: new article posted on HAPPINESS! What it is, and how to feel it: http://su.pr/1OcJ3y

En-JOI

B. Dave Walters
http://ping.fm/2IqbZ