My mom does not listen she does everything wrong like you stated in your #40 vid on family. Should I just ignore the way it makes me feel, or try and make her understand? (shes not good a listening) help ?

The first thing I would say, is you can't control your mother's behavior, but you CAN choose the meanings you apply to it.
For instance: if she comes home from work irritable and yells at you, you can choose to frame it as 'she is freaking out' or 'always takes her trouble out on me'.
Or
You can see it as that she has had a long day, and works very hard to support you (assuming you live at home), and should get your compassion rather than your irritation.

Either way, I'd say deal with her like any other 'negative' person; don't add a lot of extra meaning to it because she is your mother:
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