loved a girl when i was 10yrs old ,Heart broke when i had to move away at 10 yrs old, now grown up(40yrs old)and have found her again those feelings have come back .Do i tell her how i feel about her ? now divorced didnt feel right married to my ex .

No, I wouldn't tell her about your feelings; 30 years is a LONG time.

And to be honest, you aren't in love with who she is, you are in love with who you built her up in your mind to be.

Start from the beginning and move slowly; learn to know each other as the people you are and see if the chemistry is there. If she really is some sort of cosmic soul mate, it will all play out like it is supposed to. And if she's not, you'll find out before you have overextended yourself or gotten your hopes up too far.

One day at a time, one foot in front of the other.

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