"Before Enlightenment chop wood carry water, after Enlightenment, chop wood carry water.รข€
-Zen saying
I hope all my fellow Americans had a safe and enjoyable Memorial Day.
Tomorrow's a big day; send me all your prayers and positive energy!
And that's really all I have to say today.
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Monday, May 31, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 148: Love Always in All Ways
Today was good, nice and relaxed.
I decided to allow myself a nice and chilled out weekend before the week ahead arrives. Tomorrow (today, technically since it's 2:24 am) is Memorial Day; a major holiday here in the states.
So my thoughts go out to the families of everyone out there who's lost a loved on in service to their country; not just this one but anywhere.
I have been sleeping a LOT lately; I guess it was much needed rejuvenation, and rest.
I have cut back on my coffee intake (again), and MAN does it make a difference! By midnight I feel like I've run a marathon, hehehe.
And here I thought it was just me being tough that helped me keep these hours!
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I decided to allow myself a nice and chilled out weekend before the week ahead arrives. Tomorrow (today, technically since it's 2:24 am) is Memorial Day; a major holiday here in the states.
So my thoughts go out to the families of everyone out there who's lost a loved on in service to their country; not just this one but anywhere.
I have been sleeping a LOT lately; I guess it was much needed rejuvenation, and rest.
I have cut back on my coffee intake (again), and MAN does it make a difference! By midnight I feel like I've run a marathon, hehehe.
And here I thought it was just me being tough that helped me keep these hours!
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And remember:
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B. Dave Walters
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 147: Not your fault, but it's your responsibility
I realized something important today: many of the things that haven't gone the way I wanted them to, weren't my fault at all.
For instance, when I took on my current place we had another renter to split the cost, who left abruptly. I bought a new car because my old one was totaled in an accident. The economy turned south, and my insurance business dried up (state employees were my primary market, and California is laying people off left and right). So, it's not my fault, right?
Right.
BUT
It's *still * my responsibility.
Understand the difference? As I look back over the last 3 years, or 10 for that matter, I can't see where I would have done anything differently, and yet I have to deal with the repercussions. I can't roll over and die because circumstances outside of my control didn't go my way, all I can do is keep my mind and efforts aligned with what I want to see happen.
There is power in responsibility, the ONLY power in fact.
You can blame the world, or the economy, or your friends or your family, but in the end YOU are the architect of your own happiness or unhappiness.
Remember: either you can change EVERYTHING, or you can't change *anything *; there is no in between.
And here's another thing:
If there is something you are worried about, or 'concerned' about, ask yourself: what is the absolute worst that can happen, and if it happens: can you accept it?
I've looked ahead and everything I see potentially happening isn't only survivable, but in some ways preferable!
So keep your head up; keep swinging, never say die.
And one day we'll look back on all of this and laugh.
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For instance, when I took on my current place we had another renter to split the cost, who left abruptly. I bought a new car because my old one was totaled in an accident. The economy turned south, and my insurance business dried up (state employees were my primary market, and California is laying people off left and right). So, it's not my fault, right?
Right.
BUT
It's *still * my responsibility.
Understand the difference? As I look back over the last 3 years, or 10 for that matter, I can't see where I would have done anything differently, and yet I have to deal with the repercussions. I can't roll over and die because circumstances outside of my control didn't go my way, all I can do is keep my mind and efforts aligned with what I want to see happen.
There is power in responsibility, the ONLY power in fact.
You can blame the world, or the economy, or your friends or your family, but in the end YOU are the architect of your own happiness or unhappiness.
Remember: either you can change EVERYTHING, or you can't change *anything *; there is no in between.
And here's another thing:
If there is something you are worried about, or 'concerned' about, ask yourself: what is the absolute worst that can happen, and if it happens: can you accept it?
I've looked ahead and everything I see potentially happening isn't only survivable, but in some ways preferable!
So keep your head up; keep swinging, never say die.
And one day we'll look back on all of this and laugh.
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Saturday, May 29, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 146: The 5th and LOOOOONG
Well, the next few days should be quite telling.
But one thing I know for certain: is everyone is dealing with SOMETHING.
So it's not the challenges, but how we rise to face them that's important.
I for my part have given myself permission to stay up late for no reason, and even have a bit of beer. Tomorrow I'll sleep in a bit and get up and hit it again; I am not taking a 'holiday' as such, even though it's a BIG one here in the US (Memorial Day Weekend)...I still have too many yards to cover in a very short amount of time.
BUT THAT'S OK!
I know that in the end, everything will work out the best that it absolutely can, and I trust that God is in control of all of it.
And if God is in control, how can I be worried or afraid?
Happy Saturday!
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But one thing I know for certain: is everyone is dealing with SOMETHING.
So it's not the challenges, but how we rise to face them that's important.
I for my part have given myself permission to stay up late for no reason, and even have a bit of beer. Tomorrow I'll sleep in a bit and get up and hit it again; I am not taking a 'holiday' as such, even though it's a BIG one here in the US (Memorial Day Weekend)...I still have too many yards to cover in a very short amount of time.
BUT THAT'S OK!
I know that in the end, everything will work out the best that it absolutely can, and I trust that God is in control of all of it.
And if God is in control, how can I be worried or afraid?
Happy Saturday!
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Friday, May 28, 2010
hey dave..i've had the biggest crush on you for awhile! i don't go on here a lot but message me on www.alertsingle.com under the username "wishfulthinker".
I am pretty sure this is spam; and even if it's not, I am married!
But thanks either way, I am flattered; hehehe.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 146: The 5th Down
For my international friends, in American football you lose the ball after 4 downs, and yet I've somehow managed to keep things together for a 5th down!
I have MASSIVELY stepped up my auditioning and writing position search efforts; one of the ones I came across you have to be referred by someone else:
http://ping.fm/NCchX
So I don't know if you have to live in my area, but if you have a minute shoot them an email, what the heck; maybe if they see a bunch come in they'll realize they should contact me. You can give them my email address as BdaveWalters@PeaceLoveMoney.com hehehe.
Tonight is almost the exact opposite of last night; instead of going to bed at 4 am, I hope to be in bed by 11 (fingers crossed!)
Tomorrow is effectively the start of the long weekend, but I hope to hear back from one of these new writing positions so I can work over the weekend (a day is a day to me, Holi-day or not!)
Either way, I'll keep you posted!
A friend of mine just gave me the best compliment EVER on my book:
Laura Herman: all this new stuff
David Walters: NP, it's alot to take in
David Walters: especially when I say like amazing and crazy things like it's totally matter of fact :D
Laura Herman: basically
Laura Herman: i mean, i believe you
Laura Herman: its just, such things have never even crossed my mind
Laura Herman: your book is making my eyes crossed and roll into the back of my head
Laura Herman: and around my head
Laura Herman: and through my whole body
Laura Herman: gaaahh
David Walters: sounds like a good time O=)
Laura Herman: it is it is
If you haven't picked up a copy, you can find the E-Book here at http://ping.fm/xNnQS
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I have MASSIVELY stepped up my auditioning and writing position search efforts; one of the ones I came across you have to be referred by someone else:
http://ping.fm/NCchX
So I don't know if you have to live in my area, but if you have a minute shoot them an email, what the heck; maybe if they see a bunch come in they'll realize they should contact me. You can give them my email address as BdaveWalters@PeaceLoveMoney.com hehehe.
Tonight is almost the exact opposite of last night; instead of going to bed at 4 am, I hope to be in bed by 11 (fingers crossed!)
Tomorrow is effectively the start of the long weekend, but I hope to hear back from one of these new writing positions so I can work over the weekend (a day is a day to me, Holi-day or not!)
Either way, I'll keep you posted!
A friend of mine just gave me the best compliment EVER on my book:
Laura Herman: all this new stuff
David Walters: NP, it's alot to take in
David Walters: especially when I say like amazing and crazy things like it's totally matter of fact :D
Laura Herman: basically
Laura Herman: i mean, i believe you
Laura Herman: its just, such things have never even crossed my mind
Laura Herman: your book is making my eyes crossed and roll into the back of my head
Laura Herman: and around my head
Laura Herman: and through my whole body
Laura Herman: gaaahh
David Walters: sounds like a good time O=)
Laura Herman: it is it is
If you haven't picked up a copy, you can find the E-Book here at http://ping.fm/xNnQS
(Don't forget: Oprah auditions are still going on; please vote often (you can do it many times, on multiple days); if you aren't a US Resident please leave a comment!)
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Best Life 2010 Day 145: Another Iron In The Fire
Wow, 3:33 am; I am up late finishing a writing sample that I just submitted to a company to do some medical writing stuff. Should be a good opportunity to learn a lot and make some $$$; so fingers crossed!
Today was interesting, we babysat a friend's 1 year old son, so got a taste of what it will be like eventually with 2 rug rats. It wasn't so bad; they mostly kept each other occupied until they teamed up to cause mischief!
I am sure there is more to tell, but I'm wiped out and going to bed!
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Today was interesting, we babysat a friend's 1 year old son, so got a taste of what it will be like eventually with 2 rug rats. It wasn't so bad; they mostly kept each other occupied until they teamed up to cause mischief!
I am sure there is more to tell, but I'm wiped out and going to bed!
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Wednesday, May 26, 2010
A summary of everything I've learned after doing 50 episodes of All About You and100+ articles on love, the LoA, etc
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Best Life 2010 Day 144: 12 x 12
144 stuck in my head, since I was working on my book proposal today (remember that?) for my 144 personality types. The process is ongoing!
I think I may have mentioned a few days ago (you know I don't reread my entries) that I realized I'd kinda taken my eye off the big picture. I got hung up on day to day survival; and while that's important, it's a never ending cycle.
See if this sounds familiar:
I need X dollars to live, and since I am self employed it's up to me to raise it each month. By the same token, there are projects I am working on that won't pay dividends for months (and possibly never); so they go on the back burner for short term gains.
BUT
If I never dig in deep and put in the time, they'll *never pay those dividends *...does that make sense?
So I've resolved in the midst of it all, I have resolved to put in time every day on my book proposal, and on my fiction work in addition to all the short-term business building I do.
In the meantime, I keep pushing...and keeping my eyes open for the wonderful thing coming my way!
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I think I may have mentioned a few days ago (you know I don't reread my entries) that I realized I'd kinda taken my eye off the big picture. I got hung up on day to day survival; and while that's important, it's a never ending cycle.
See if this sounds familiar:
I need X dollars to live, and since I am self employed it's up to me to raise it each month. By the same token, there are projects I am working on that won't pay dividends for months (and possibly never); so they go on the back burner for short term gains.
BUT
If I never dig in deep and put in the time, they'll *never pay those dividends *...does that make sense?
So I've resolved in the midst of it all, I have resolved to put in time every day on my book proposal, and on my fiction work in addition to all the short-term business building I do.
In the meantime, I keep pushing...and keeping my eyes open for the wonderful thing coming my way!
(Don't forget: Oprah auditions are still going on; please vote often (you can do it many times, on multiple days); if you aren't a US Resident please leave a comment!)
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And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
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Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Q&A Article: What should a lady wear on a first date?
What signals are you sending, and how to send the right ones!
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What signals are you sending, and how to send the right ones!
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Monday, May 24, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 143: Over 9,000
'Over 9,000' is an internet joke, so don't feel bad if you don't get it, it probably means that you are cooler than I am, hehehe.
Basically it's just another way of saying I am feeling GREAT again!
I had a breakthrough in my meditaiton last night (or very early this morning); I am absolutely certain something amazing is about to happen. I just have to keep my eyes open and be ready to walk through the door when it opens.
It feels good to...feel good again! Not that I got that down, but I certainly felt preoccupied. Now it's been replaced with a sense of lightness, since I know that it's all in God's hands and whatever happens will be for the absolute best for everyone involved.
But mark my words: something awesome; and not in weeks or months, but in days.
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Basically it's just another way of saying I am feeling GREAT again!
I had a breakthrough in my meditaiton last night (or very early this morning); I am absolutely certain something amazing is about to happen. I just have to keep my eyes open and be ready to walk through the door when it opens.
It feels good to...feel good again! Not that I got that down, but I certainly felt preoccupied. Now it's been replaced with a sense of lightness, since I know that it's all in God's hands and whatever happens will be for the absolute best for everyone involved.
But mark my words: something awesome; and not in weeks or months, but in days.
(Don't forget: Oprah auditions are still going on; please vote often (you can do it many times, on multiple days); if you aren't a US Resident please leave a comment!)
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Best Life 2010 Day 142: Sunny days, chasing the clouds away!
Had a good time today; Charlene's brother in law, his wife, their child, her mom and brother (who lives here, lol) were in town visiting; so we did the tour guide thing and walked around quite a bit on the Hollywood Strip.
I enjoyed it, but was so tired from towing Lexi around on my back that I had to come home and take a nap!
Charlene is off work the next few days; will give me a good opportunity to work free from distractions...also means I had better accomplish something; I can't hide behind Lexi anymore!
Hehehehehehe.
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
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I enjoyed it, but was so tired from towing Lexi around on my back that I had to come home and take a nap!
Charlene is off work the next few days; will give me a good opportunity to work free from distractions...also means I had better accomplish something; I can't hide behind Lexi anymore!
Hehehehehehe.
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
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Sunday, May 23, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 141: Full speed ahead
So I had a good day today; I slept VERY late...like till 2 pm late.
Got up happy; it was a *gorgeous * day.
Later on I took some time to get out of the house and do some journaling.
I figured out precisely what my current challenges are; I don't even like to call them problems.
One of the big lessons of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is that everything lives in language. There is a world of difference between a challenge, an obstacle, a problem and a crisis, right? But we quite often use these words interchangeably.
So I sat down and boiled what I need to do down to it's essence.
Once you know precisely what it is, you can figure out how to fix it.
Or even if you can't fix it, adjust to dealing with it; since as always you only have two options: change it, or deal with it.
And in the end, nothing I am facing is the end of the world; all I can do is all I can do.
I'm off to bed 'early' tonight; Charlene's brother and his family are in town, and we'll be doing our Los Angeles tour guide thing tomorrow!
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
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Got up happy; it was a *gorgeous * day.
Later on I took some time to get out of the house and do some journaling.
I figured out precisely what my current challenges are; I don't even like to call them problems.
One of the big lessons of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is that everything lives in language. There is a world of difference between a challenge, an obstacle, a problem and a crisis, right? But we quite often use these words interchangeably.
So I sat down and boiled what I need to do down to it's essence.
Once you know precisely what it is, you can figure out how to fix it.
Or even if you can't fix it, adjust to dealing with it; since as always you only have two options: change it, or deal with it.
And in the end, nothing I am facing is the end of the world; all I can do is all I can do.
I'm off to bed 'early' tonight; Charlene's brother and his family are in town, and we'll be doing our Los Angeles tour guide thing tomorrow!
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
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Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/2DvDy
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 140: Patience, Discipline.
Thanks to everyone who has voted on my Oprah audition so far; remember you can vote multiple times, so please do when you have time!
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It's come to my attention that only US Residents can vote, so if you are outside of the country please leave a comment at least, so the Producers can see it. Either way, thank you so much for your love and support!
Meanwhile.
My life has certainly taken an interesting turn; and by interesting I mean
“terrifying” hehehe. The reality is, things are how they are, and I apply what meaning to it that I will.
On the one hand, I have obstacles that I see no real way over; but luckily enough I don't have to. God is in the way-making business, so all I have to do is keep moving.
By the same token,
I have opportunities the likes of which I've never dreamed of, and I have been blessed to meet and make friends with new wonderful people from all over the world.
So while it may take things falling apart to be built back again, I trust that God is in control and leading me to where I am supposed to be.
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
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http://ping.fm/uHEci
http://su.pr/2SHnsX
It's come to my attention that only US Residents can vote, so if you are outside of the country please leave a comment at least, so the Producers can see it. Either way, thank you so much for your love and support!
Meanwhile.
My life has certainly taken an interesting turn; and by interesting I mean
“terrifying” hehehe. The reality is, things are how they are, and I apply what meaning to it that I will.
On the one hand, I have obstacles that I see no real way over; but luckily enough I don't have to. God is in the way-making business, so all I have to do is keep moving.
By the same token,
I have opportunities the likes of which I've never dreamed of, and I have been blessed to meet and make friends with new wonderful people from all over the world.
So while it may take things falling apart to be built back again, I trust that God is in control and leading me to where I am supposed to be.
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/uHEci
Friday, May 21, 2010
All about DATING: how to flirt, how to know who is interested in your, or make them get interested, and much much more!
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Thursday, May 20, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 138: AUDITIONING FOR OPRAH!
Oprah is doing a contest to see who is going to win their own show on her new network; I suspect it will be something like American Idol for positive types who can't sing, lol.
I put the video up on Facebook so I can bounce if off my people before I upload it for the world http://su.pr/5bSoYG
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!
Tomorrow is a big day. Got some huge hurdles to jump, but I am 100% focused on getting this thing done, uploaded, and sent off with all the warm fuzzy positive energy I can send with it.
I'll cut this one short so you have time to watch and comment!
B. Dave Walters
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I put the video up on Facebook so I can bounce if off my people before I upload it for the world http://su.pr/5bSoYG
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!
Tomorrow is a big day. Got some huge hurdles to jump, but I am 100% focused on getting this thing done, uploaded, and sent off with all the warm fuzzy positive energy I can send with it.
I'll cut this one short so you have time to watch and comment!
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Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Q&A article: she wants to be 'friends with benefits' or have more booty calls and doesn't know how. what should she do?
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My new article on how to stay happy and positive, and how to control your moods instead of them controlling you!
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Best Life 2010 Day 137: God's Mercy Kept Me
You may recall (if you've been reading long enough) that I said I gave up worrying last December. I must admit, though that over the last few days I've been 'considering' things *very * heavily, though; hehe.
Someone asked me yesterday (and today, oddly enough) what my mission / job in life is, and I said without blinking: to serve God to the best of my ability.
So that's the focus, THAT is what matters. What difference does it make if there are delays, difficulties, or outright defeats on the way?
More importantly, delays are an illusion. It's only delayed because we arbitrarily choose to believe it 'should' have happened already.
The point is: get up, keep moving, keep swinging and never say die.
Our obstacles and limitations are what we make them. I choose to make mine stepping stones.
“To fall 7 times is to rise 8 times: Life begins today”
-Bodhidharma, founder of Shaolin Kung Fu
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Someone asked me yesterday (and today, oddly enough) what my mission / job in life is, and I said without blinking: to serve God to the best of my ability.
So that's the focus, THAT is what matters. What difference does it make if there are delays, difficulties, or outright defeats on the way?
More importantly, delays are an illusion. It's only delayed because we arbitrarily choose to believe it 'should' have happened already.
The point is: get up, keep moving, keep swinging and never say die.
Our obstacles and limitations are what we make them. I choose to make mine stepping stones.
“To fall 7 times is to rise 8 times: Life begins today”
-Bodhidharma, founder of Shaolin Kung Fu
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Tuesday, May 18, 2010
New article / video on Time: what it is, why it doesn't really exist, and how to use it to your advantage!
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So, i heard time doesn't exist. Then how can i benefit of that? Like, if i need money in wihin this week. The Universe doesn't act on time.
Answered here (with an article and video):
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Why are men so selfish? ( no offense lol)
None taken!
Real men aren't; boys are.
In reality PEOPLE can be selfish, but the reality is, they do what they do. We attach whatever meaning to it that we will.
If you want a man to do what you want him to do, try this instead:
http://www.examiner.com/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2010m4d3-Understanding-Mr-Right-Or-how-to-train-your-husband
loved a girl when i was 10yrs old ,Heart broke when i had to move away at 10 yrs old, now grown up(40yrs old)and have found her again those feelings have come back .Do i tell her how i feel about her ? now divorced didnt feel right married to my ex .
No, I wouldn't tell her about your feelings; 30 years is a LONG time.
And to be honest, you aren't in love with who she is, you are in love with who you built her up in your mind to be.
Start from the beginning and move slowly; learn to know each other as the people you are and see if the chemistry is there. If she really is some sort of cosmic soul mate, it will all play out like it is supposed to. And if she's not, you'll find out before you have overextended yourself or gotten your hopes up too far.
One day at a time, one foot in front of the other.
Hi Dave, This is that woman who hasn't dated! Well,you got part of it right about my father, but I wasn't abused, just disappointed a lot. He was or still is a workaholic, and he cheated on my mother, along with a long line of other men in my family line.
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Best Life 2010 Day 136: Mentally Rebooting
OK, so my mental game is about 85% back; will be 100% in the morning.
It's a strange thing; I get 'down' so rarely, and can pull myself out of it so quickly, that I almost enjoy the 'down' feeling.
Or at least I have to be careful not to be so quick to 'coach myself' that I miss the message of the emotions, if that makes sense.
Since that is the number one risk of my work to apply all my own stuff, is sometimes it makes it a little hard to be human, hehehehe.
At any rate...I'll be back in the fight tomorrow.
In the mean time...you know what is an amazing thing? YOUTUBE.
I know it's nothing new, (5 years old this week in fact); but that is a frikkin' amazing website. I have been listening to old songs that cheer me up, and I've found things I haven't heard in 20 years.
It's weird that I am old enough to have songs I haven't heard in 20 years, hehe.
I want to leave you with a song that always makes me feel good. It's a Christian song, but I think it applies to 'Believers' of all types:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvG62Fg9mbU&feature=PlayList&p=7E6253E6C64F96A7&playnext_from=PL&index=92&playnext=8
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It's a strange thing; I get 'down' so rarely, and can pull myself out of it so quickly, that I almost enjoy the 'down' feeling.
Or at least I have to be careful not to be so quick to 'coach myself' that I miss the message of the emotions, if that makes sense.
Since that is the number one risk of my work to apply all my own stuff, is sometimes it makes it a little hard to be human, hehehehe.
At any rate...I'll be back in the fight tomorrow.
In the mean time...you know what is an amazing thing? YOUTUBE.
I know it's nothing new, (5 years old this week in fact); but that is a frikkin' amazing website. I have been listening to old songs that cheer me up, and I've found things I haven't heard in 20 years.
It's weird that I am old enough to have songs I haven't heard in 20 years, hehe.
I want to leave you with a song that always makes me feel good. It's a Christian song, but I think it applies to 'Believers' of all types:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvG62Fg9mbU&feature=PlayList&p=7E6253E6C64F96A7&playnext_from=PL&index=92&playnext=8
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Monday, May 17, 2010
How do I make sure that all of the right people or person know that I am available?
Step 1: figure out who they are
Step 2: figure out where they are
Step 3: Go there!
I explain it all in more detail, here: http://su.pr/2Q6uTu
I am in trouble. I know this guy loves me and I am not interested in him at all. He always calls I respond, talked over the phone for very long, I do if he asks a favor.... I want him totally out of my life. How do I do this?
An interesting question.
The easiest way is to tell him straight out, either on the phone, or in a public place. (People are less likely to freak out in public).
If for some reason you think he's crazy / dangerous, then just phase him out slowly. Answer every other call, then every 3rd or 5th. If he asks what's up tell him you've been busy, but keep starving him out until there is zero contact.
The direct approach is the best, however (assuming he's not crazy / dangerous); have enough respect to cut him off cleanly. Yes, it will hurt him; but the long way will hurt worse, longer.
Tell him he's a great guy, but you just don't feel that way about him.
No one wants to hear that, but that doesn't mean it isn't true!
My mom does not listen she does everything wrong like you stated in your #40 vid on family. Should I just ignore the way it makes me feel, or try and make her understand? (shes not good a listening) help ?
The first thing I would say, is you can't control your mother's behavior, but you CAN choose the meanings you apply to it.
For instance: if she comes home from work irritable and yells at you, you can choose to frame it as 'she is freaking out' or 'always takes her trouble out on me'.
Or
You can see it as that she has had a long day, and works very hard to support you (assuming you live at home), and should get your compassion rather than your irritation.
Either way, I'd say deal with her like any other 'negative' person; don't add a lot of extra meaning to it because she is your mother:
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Article / Video on how to get over rejection, how to stop cyber-stalking, starting new relationships and more!
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Best Life 2010 Day 135: GAME DAY: The Recap!
It went well!
They still don't know what they are going to do, and won't for about 3-4 more weeks;
He read my first story and gave me some feedback, and said he'd read the next one and let me know what he thought.
All in all a good contact; all I can do is follow up, wait to hear back from him, and keep moving.
I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a *little * disappointed.
Not because he said anything negative (he didn't); and not because this opportunity won't manifest, since it still very well might.
I am a little disappointed, because I am ready for something to actually happen faster / easier than anticipated.
Oh well, I will do the only thing I can do: press on.
“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.
Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.
Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.
Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race” -Calvin Coolidge
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They still don't know what they are going to do, and won't for about 3-4 more weeks;
He read my first story and gave me some feedback, and said he'd read the next one and let me know what he thought.
All in all a good contact; all I can do is follow up, wait to hear back from him, and keep moving.
I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a *little * disappointed.
Not because he said anything negative (he didn't); and not because this opportunity won't manifest, since it still very well might.
I am a little disappointed, because I am ready for something to actually happen faster / easier than anticipated.
Oh well, I will do the only thing I can do: press on.
“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.
Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.
Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.
Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race” -Calvin Coolidge
B. Dave Walters
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Sunday, May 16, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 134: GAME DAY!
Technically today is 'game day' since it's 1 am, but I have to sleep first, hehe. Today (Saturday) was good, spent time with the family and relaxed.
Basically spent the day preparing mentally for tomorrow.
Let me be clear, tomorrow is a pretty informal thing; but it's an opportunity to connect and create something more formal in the (hopefully near) future.
If I can't move things along to the next stage, at least I want to find out what they are looking for so I can be better prepared when the opportunity DOES present itself.
Either way, it's a big day!
Lexi woke me up very early today, which isn't totally uncommon; but I couldn't get back to sleep afterwards. I took the time to meditate and reflect, but it has really caught up to me at this late hour!
It's interesting to think everything I ever wanted could be put in motion in about 14 hours!
I'll keep you posted, but you knew that already.
God bless you for sticking with me on the wild ride that is my life.
B. Dave Walters
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Basically spent the day preparing mentally for tomorrow.
Let me be clear, tomorrow is a pretty informal thing; but it's an opportunity to connect and create something more formal in the (hopefully near) future.
If I can't move things along to the next stage, at least I want to find out what they are looking for so I can be better prepared when the opportunity DOES present itself.
Either way, it's a big day!
Lexi woke me up very early today, which isn't totally uncommon; but I couldn't get back to sleep afterwards. I took the time to meditate and reflect, but it has really caught up to me at this late hour!
It's interesting to think everything I ever wanted could be put in motion in about 14 hours!
I'll keep you posted, but you knew that already.
God bless you for sticking with me on the wild ride that is my life.
B. Dave Walters
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Saturday, May 15, 2010
Can the LOA help with legal matters? My husband has an upcomming court date and the crown is asking for prison time... will positive thoughts on this matter change the possible outcome?
Yes, the LoA can help with this or anything else.
However, karma is a boomerang.
If he did what he is accused of, then there may well be repercussions.
Assuming he's innocent (or you are hoping for lenience) the steps to applying the Law to affect the law are the same as anything else:
http://www.examiner.com/x-26138-Spirituality-Examiner~y2010m3d31-The-Law-Of-Attraction-Or-no-longer-a-Secret
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Friday, May 14, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 132: Back In The Saddle!
I absolutely love this quote:
“Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.” -Helen Keller
This is why I try so many different things, and refuse to give up: security is an illusion. You may think you are better off with a 'safe' job or a 'safe' relationship, but the fact is no such thing exists. Companies close, people get laid off. Relationships end, or people die; playing it safe is pointless.
Pick what you want and go after it, it's the only way to truly live!
I had more to say, but something is telling me to leave you with that.
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“Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.” -Helen Keller
This is why I try so many different things, and refuse to give up: security is an illusion. You may think you are better off with a 'safe' job or a 'safe' relationship, but the fact is no such thing exists. Companies close, people get laid off. Relationships end, or people die; playing it safe is pointless.
Pick what you want and go after it, it's the only way to truly live!
I had more to say, but something is telling me to leave you with that.
B. Dave Walters
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I love my girlfriend but there is a another girl who i cant get out of my head.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it.
Remember the 80/20 rule: if your girl is meeting 80% of your needs, the other 20% this girl offers you may seem attractive.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as you don't act on it; that's called being human.
If you truly can't control it anymore, break up with your girl before you approach the new one, and do NOT cheat on her.
I talked about this type of thing here: http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1Ce88x/www.examiner.com/examiner/x-44756-LA-Relationship-Examiner~y2010m4d19-Is-it-ever-possible-to-love-two-people-at-the-same-time/r:f
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 131: The Die Is Cast (again)!
It's done!
After spending as many hours editing my stories as I spent writing them, they are done! Every time I thought they were perfect, I'd send them to someone else who found something I missed.
Either way, I feel like I was reaching the point of diminishing returns; you can only sharpen a knife so much before you start to wear away the blade.
Tomorrow it's back down to business: writing new articles and shooting new episodes of All About You!
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After spending as many hours editing my stories as I spent writing them, they are done! Every time I thought they were perfect, I'd send them to someone else who found something I missed.
Either way, I feel like I was reaching the point of diminishing returns; you can only sharpen a knife so much before you start to wear away the blade.
Tomorrow it's back down to business: writing new articles and shooting new episodes of All About You!
B. Dave Walters
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http://ping.fm/nxCbw
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 130: Victory at 4:30 AM!
I FINISHED MY STORIES!
I said I wasn't going to bed until they are done, and they are done...so I'm going to bed!
*Note, these stories were written as a fiction writing sample for Blizzard Games; the story is set inside the universe of World of Warcraft, so there may be people and places mentioned that you don't quite understand. Still, you should be able to more than comprehend the essence of the story, even if some of the details are hazy.*
“Uncommon Enemies” By David Walters (short short: 1,252 words)
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“Panic in Northshire Valley” By David Walters (Short Story: 10,614 Words)
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I said I wasn't going to bed until they are done, and they are done...so I'm going to bed!
*Note, these stories were written as a fiction writing sample for Blizzard Games; the story is set inside the universe of World of Warcraft, so there may be people and places mentioned that you don't quite understand. Still, you should be able to more than comprehend the essence of the story, even if some of the details are hazy.*
“Uncommon Enemies” By David Walters (short short: 1,252 words)
http://ping.fm/YXzHm?note_id=410439682592
“Panic in Northshire Valley” By David Walters (Short Story: 10,614 Words)
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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 129: I feel pretty, oh so pretty!
So, God must have known I needed a bit of a boost; I was getting complimented and hit on left and right today hehe.
Needless to say, I rather enjoyed it. O=)
I am also really enjoying putting together my fiction writing submission; I'd hoped to have had the second story finished today, but I think I am going to break to sleep here after I post this and hit it fresh in the morning.
Since I've gotten sleepy, I bet I'll read it in the morning and it is nowhere near as good as I think it is, LOL!
I want to get it done and behind me so I can go back to my articles and videos; I haven't written any articles since last Wednesday, but truth be told I'm enjoying the break.
I was feeling a little burnt out with the increased article output, so I'll probably go back to one of each per day.
At any rate, I want it to come from the heart, or not at all.
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Needless to say, I rather enjoyed it. O=)
I am also really enjoying putting together my fiction writing submission; I'd hoped to have had the second story finished today, but I think I am going to break to sleep here after I post this and hit it fresh in the morning.
Since I've gotten sleepy, I bet I'll read it in the morning and it is nowhere near as good as I think it is, LOL!
I want to get it done and behind me so I can go back to my articles and videos; I haven't written any articles since last Wednesday, but truth be told I'm enjoying the break.
I was feeling a little burnt out with the increased article output, so I'll probably go back to one of each per day.
At any rate, I want it to come from the heart, or not at all.
B. Dave Walters
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Monday, May 10, 2010
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 128: Happy Mother's Day!
Today was a good day.
Charlene had to work for the first part of the day, but that gave Lexi and I time to set up some surprises for when she got home, so that worked out well.
We had a good time; went to eat Thai food (her fav) and watched The Family Stone; a great movie if you've never seen it.
We also talked a lot about the future etc; which felt good. Talked to my mom, grandma, and sister; made the rounds.
And my final Mother's Day gift: going to bed early!
Hey wait...get your mind out of the gutter, hehehehe.
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Charlene had to work for the first part of the day, but that gave Lexi and I time to set up some surprises for when she got home, so that worked out well.
We had a good time; went to eat Thai food (her fav) and watched The Family Stone; a great movie if you've never seen it.
We also talked a lot about the future etc; which felt good. Talked to my mom, grandma, and sister; made the rounds.
And my final Mother's Day gift: going to bed early!
Hey wait...get your mind out of the gutter, hehehehe.
B. Dave Walters
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Best Life 2010 Day 127: Boy's Night Out!
Today was a good day.
I got that last bit of yuckiness worked out (turned out to be totally painless), then went to a bar to watch the Ultimate Fighting Championship. Turns out the Lakers were playing, so I had to sit through the game (Yes, I am am a giant tall black guy who doesn't like basketball). They won though, so that made for a fun and festive time.
The UFC show was solid; some of the fights were weak but the main event was pretty exciting; all in all a good night.
Now off to bed so I can get up and be wonderful for Mother's Day, hehehe.
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I got that last bit of yuckiness worked out (turned out to be totally painless), then went to a bar to watch the Ultimate Fighting Championship. Turns out the Lakers were playing, so I had to sit through the game (Yes, I am am a giant tall black guy who doesn't like basketball). They won though, so that made for a fun and festive time.
The UFC show was solid; some of the fights were weak but the main event was pretty exciting; all in all a good night.
Now off to bed so I can get up and be wonderful for Mother's Day, hehehe.
B. Dave Walters
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Saturday, May 8, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 126: Sure as a turn of the worlds
Today was much better.
Woke up early (guess I recaptured those lost hours from yesterday!)
Ran some errands, and got to see Iron Man 2 (which was awesome).
Got my next story plotted out so I can hopefully punch it out over the weekend, so I'm excited about that.
Taking some time off from writing was good, helped me get my head back together. The pressure is basically self imposed, there are no real repercussions for not doing it for a few days; minus a little money and exposure, that is.
I dealt with all the repercussions of my 'unpleasant surprise' but one (the biggest); I'll slay that dragon tomorrow. I decided to enjoy my Friday, and I did.
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Woke up early (guess I recaptured those lost hours from yesterday!)
Ran some errands, and got to see Iron Man 2 (which was awesome).
Got my next story plotted out so I can hopefully punch it out over the weekend, so I'm excited about that.
Taking some time off from writing was good, helped me get my head back together. The pressure is basically self imposed, there are no real repercussions for not doing it for a few days; minus a little money and exposure, that is.
I dealt with all the repercussions of my 'unpleasant surprise' but one (the biggest); I'll slay that dragon tomorrow. I decided to enjoy my Friday, and I did.
B. Dave Walters
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Friday, May 7, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 125: Unpleasant Surprises.
A strange thing happened; I just COULD NOT WAKE UP this morning; I slept half the day away! And when I woke up I got some unexpectedly negative news, but I am dealing with it.
It can be a thin line to walk between trying to figure out how to improve things without getting upset or depressed. In the end, all we can do is all we can do, and trust God / The Universe to sort out the details.
I really don't even like writing about all that has been going on lately, but when I started this blog I committed to total honesty. With all this turmoil, I am certain a *big * breakthrough is on the way!
Like always, I press on; nothing gets me down long. O=)
What I DID do, however, was finish my first short story for my submission to Blizzard Games; I'm getting positive feedback so that feels good.
I also had a good long talk with my friend I mentioned a few days ago; got that whole situation sorted out, so I feel much better (and hopefully so do they).
Never give up, never give up, never, ever, ever, give up!
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It can be a thin line to walk between trying to figure out how to improve things without getting upset or depressed. In the end, all we can do is all we can do, and trust God / The Universe to sort out the details.
I really don't even like writing about all that has been going on lately, but when I started this blog I committed to total honesty. With all this turmoil, I am certain a *big * breakthrough is on the way!
Like always, I press on; nothing gets me down long. O=)
What I DID do, however, was finish my first short story for my submission to Blizzard Games; I'm getting positive feedback so that feels good.
I also had a good long talk with my friend I mentioned a few days ago; got that whole situation sorted out, so I feel much better (and hopefully so do they).
Never give up, never give up, never, ever, ever, give up!
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
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Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
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Thursday, May 6, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 124: The Slow Blade Penetrates
I hope you had a good Cinco De Mayo...whether or not you celebrated it as a holiday!
My day started oddly but ended strong; my mental game was off still from the last few days, but I got some writing done and had some much needed conversations. I also drank some coffee mixed with hot cocoa and watched Star Wars Episode 3; I'm back at 100%, works every time!
Did a lot of writing, answered a lot of questions on http://formspring.me/bdavewalters and uploaded a new video on Anxiety:
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=119891191368000&ref=mf
I noticed that I got caught up in day to day survival and decisions that I took my eye of the big picture. It's all well and good to plan each day, but if you lose track of your vision, you'll just end up with a collection of days...activity does not equal achievement!
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
My day started oddly but ended strong; my mental game was off still from the last few days, but I got some writing done and had some much needed conversations. I also drank some coffee mixed with hot cocoa and watched Star Wars Episode 3; I'm back at 100%, works every time!
Did a lot of writing, answered a lot of questions on http://formspring.me/bdavewalters and uploaded a new video on Anxiety:
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=119891191368000&ref=mf
I noticed that I got caught up in day to day survival and decisions that I took my eye of the big picture. It's all well and good to plan each day, but if you lose track of your vision, you'll just end up with a collection of days...activity does not equal achievement!
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Q&A Article: "He says he is going to leave her for me, but never does; what is going on?"
http://su.pr/3r26H3
http://su.pr/3r26H3
Is God a He, She, or an It? How and why did genders get attached to God? What religions identify God(s) as a He, She, or It? Thanks!
Answered here (especially in the 2 videos) http://su.pr/9TCvip
Q&A Article on how to lose weight why you have difficulty changing how to know what is the best way to exercise and more
http://su.pr/1MzW3r
http://su.pr/1MzW3r
Best Life 2010 Day 123: Self-Medicating
Today I truly took the day off.
Well, that isn't true; I still had a coaching call and handled some other stuff, but I took the day as off as I ever do. I didn't even do any writing!
I got to spend some time with a friend who was in from out of town (fun), and spent some time with the family.
My mental game still wasn't at 100%, so I went for a walk and picked up some late night snacks I'm about to enjoy, so it's still all G double O D good.
On a positive note, my workouts seem to have really taken off; I can't believe the changes in my body almost out of nowhere. I started noticing how much bigger my shoulders were getting even though I wasn't working out regularly. I couldn't figure it out! Then I noticed that Lexi's favorite thing is when I hold her hands, she jumps and I lift her up to the ceiling; I've been doing 30 pound lifts every night! Not to mention the miles I walk with her in the harness on my back (still both of our favorite things).
There is more to tell, but my pizza is ready!
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
Well, that isn't true; I still had a coaching call and handled some other stuff, but I took the day as off as I ever do. I didn't even do any writing!
I got to spend some time with a friend who was in from out of town (fun), and spent some time with the family.
My mental game still wasn't at 100%, so I went for a walk and picked up some late night snacks I'm about to enjoy, so it's still all G double O D good.
On a positive note, my workouts seem to have really taken off; I can't believe the changes in my body almost out of nowhere. I started noticing how much bigger my shoulders were getting even though I wasn't working out regularly. I couldn't figure it out! Then I noticed that Lexi's favorite thing is when I hold her hands, she jumps and I lift her up to the ceiling; I've been doing 30 pound lifts every night! Not to mention the miles I walk with her in the harness on my back (still both of our favorite things).
There is more to tell, but my pizza is ready!
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 122: Now I feel a bit yucky.
Well at this exact second, I feel a bit yucky.
I have a friend who is going through a tough time, so I pushed a bit too hard in trying to help them see that it's not all their fault and ended up upsetting them more.
The path to healing is a rocky one, but I prefer to try and 'first do no harm', as it were. The strange thing is it's triggering my old 'fixer' tendencies; like I want to figure out the right magic words right now to fix it all RIGHT NOW, even though I know no such words exist. I have given up thinking like that, though for a few reasons: 1 people's process are their process, and they heal in the right way in the right time, ALWAYS; 2, people aren't 'broken' so there is nothing to 'fix', I just help people make new and better choices that serve them; 3, I'd go insane doing what I do if I had the level of emotional involvement I used to have. Like I said, people's process is there process, and quite often I have to stand by and witness people make the same mistakes over and over and over without getting irritated, frustrated, or angry.
It's not for me to judge people's decisions, I just try and 'coach' them through it and, as I said, help them make better decisions. I guess seeing someone I've come to value and care about treated poorly, and then begin to believe they somehow DESERVE that treatment, triggered those old protective instincts.
But,
I see it, I accept it, I release it. And it is done. O=)
Today was a good day overall; got some work done, nice walk and dinner with the family. Got a bit sick at a restaurant that a friend who is coming into town tomorrow is begging to go back to, oh noes!
All in all it was grand; but probably best to call it an early night.
Oh yes, I did do an article and a video on Jealousy and how to beat it (or at least use it to your advantage):
http://su.pr/AXC64G
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/4BImo
I have a friend who is going through a tough time, so I pushed a bit too hard in trying to help them see that it's not all their fault and ended up upsetting them more.
The path to healing is a rocky one, but I prefer to try and 'first do no harm', as it were. The strange thing is it's triggering my old 'fixer' tendencies; like I want to figure out the right magic words right now to fix it all RIGHT NOW, even though I know no such words exist. I have given up thinking like that, though for a few reasons: 1 people's process are their process, and they heal in the right way in the right time, ALWAYS; 2, people aren't 'broken' so there is nothing to 'fix', I just help people make new and better choices that serve them; 3, I'd go insane doing what I do if I had the level of emotional involvement I used to have. Like I said, people's process is there process, and quite often I have to stand by and witness people make the same mistakes over and over and over without getting irritated, frustrated, or angry.
It's not for me to judge people's decisions, I just try and 'coach' them through it and, as I said, help them make better decisions. I guess seeing someone I've come to value and care about treated poorly, and then begin to believe they somehow DESERVE that treatment, triggered those old protective instincts.
But,
I see it, I accept it, I release it. And it is done. O=)
Today was a good day overall; got some work done, nice walk and dinner with the family. Got a bit sick at a restaurant that a friend who is coming into town tomorrow is begging to go back to, oh noes!
All in all it was grand; but probably best to call it an early night.
Oh yes, I did do an article and a video on Jealousy and how to beat it (or at least use it to your advantage):
http://su.pr/AXC64G
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/4BImo
Monday, May 3, 2010
New article and video on how to deal with JEALOUSY!
Why things bother you, why you feel envy and how to deal with it!
http://su.pr/AXC64G
Why things bother you, why you feel envy and how to deal with it!
http://su.pr/AXC64G
Q&A Article on how to accept help and allow abundance into your life; must read for fans of the Law of Attraction!
http://su.pr/6eSw9u
http://su.pr/6eSw9u
Best Life 2010 Day 121: Easy like Sunday morning.
A good day; slept in (much needed) then did laundry and cleaned up the place a bit so Charlene could rest (also much needed).
Unfortunately I cut my hand up cleaning the bathroom, so I didn't get everything done that I wanted to, but I'll do it later. It's the thought that counts, I guess; hehehe.
In the interest of leading by example, I am working out my own *10 year plan * for what I want and where I am trying to go. Like Jim Rohn says: most people greatly over estimate what they can do in 1 year, but greatly underestimate what they can do in 10.
You are probably aware of the goals I set for 2010 (2 months go go!) but no matter what has or has not happened by July, I won't stop moving until my life is transformed into exactly what I want it to be. All I can do is stay focused and exert constant effort; when and how things manifest is in God's hands, not mine.
The only downside to sleeping in, is it compresses the day; it's almost 3 am and I'm just now doing what I am usually doing at midnight! Oh well, going to call it a night now I suppose. O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/bF9bT
Unfortunately I cut my hand up cleaning the bathroom, so I didn't get everything done that I wanted to, but I'll do it later. It's the thought that counts, I guess; hehehe.
In the interest of leading by example, I am working out my own *10 year plan * for what I want and where I am trying to go. Like Jim Rohn says: most people greatly over estimate what they can do in 1 year, but greatly underestimate what they can do in 10.
You are probably aware of the goals I set for 2010 (2 months go go!) but no matter what has or has not happened by July, I won't stop moving until my life is transformed into exactly what I want it to be. All I can do is stay focused and exert constant effort; when and how things manifest is in God's hands, not mine.
The only downside to sleeping in, is it compresses the day; it's almost 3 am and I'm just now doing what I am usually doing at midnight! Oh well, going to call it a night now I suppose. O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/bF9bT
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 120: STAY ON TARGET!
So I took a day off today; spent some time out at the park with the fam, went to the library, played a game with my friends...a good day.
I also think I've solved my 'what to write, when' problem; I think I am going to go back down to 1 article per each column (or maybe 2 very short ones) until I get my fiction submission done. The Examiner articles don't pay a whole lot in and of themselves, but it's good marketing and exposure for me and what I do; so I don't want to lose that momentum.
My schedule for this coming week is a lot less hectic, so it shouldn't be too hard to fit it all in.
One day at a time! O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/uN7Cu
I also think I've solved my 'what to write, when' problem; I think I am going to go back down to 1 article per each column (or maybe 2 very short ones) until I get my fiction submission done. The Examiner articles don't pay a whole lot in and of themselves, but it's good marketing and exposure for me and what I do; so I don't want to lose that momentum.
My schedule for this coming week is a lot less hectic, so it shouldn't be too hard to fit it all in.
One day at a time! O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/uN7Cu
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 119: Dodged Bullets
Ok...another dramatic title, but it makes the whole thing seem more important now, doesn't it?
A long week, and I did dodge more than one bullet this week; but at least I navigated safely though all that full moon insanity. I am happy it's the weekend. I have said in the past that it doesn't matter to me since I'm self employed, but I'm glad Charlene is off work and we can hang out as a family.
It has been a very long week: part of me wants to take off from my article writing until my fiction submission is done, but I've had so many great question sent in I don't want to keep people waiting too long.
I'll figure out a way to do it all, I always do. O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/El1Oo
A long week, and I did dodge more than one bullet this week; but at least I navigated safely though all that full moon insanity. I am happy it's the weekend. I have said in the past that it doesn't matter to me since I'm self employed, but I'm glad Charlene is off work and we can hang out as a family.
It has been a very long week: part of me wants to take off from my article writing until my fiction submission is done, but I've had so many great question sent in I don't want to keep people waiting too long.
I'll figure out a way to do it all, I always do. O=)
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column:http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/El1Oo
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