I am in a long term relationship. I have become friendly with a guy from work who I know is gay and I am finding myself attracted to him physically. He openly flirts with me and i flirt back. Ive never had feelings for a man before but im so curious ???

I wrote an article about the concept of 'emotional cheating' previously that applies here: http://www.examiner.com/relationship-in-los-angeles/is-it-ever-possible-to-love-two-people-at-the-same-time

Since the guy in question is gay, I assume he isn't actually interested in a romantic relationship, so chances are it's not HIM you are interested in, but the *attention*.
Chances are, he makes you feel beautiful and special in a way that your current significant other does not; quite simply he gives you a tingle in your tummy.

My suggestion is let your boyfriend know that you are feeling a bit neglected, or at least not very special and work together on what he can do to make you feel more valued.
Do NOT tell him about the guy at work, that will only make him miss the true message.

And if he doesn't how you feel and what you need, send him here: http://www.examiner.com/spirituality-in-national/understanding-mrs-right-or-traveling-to-venus

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