Dave I have decided to sever what I thought was a good friendship but after some serious soul searching I realized that this person ALWAYS took from the friendship and never gave. I am tired of carrying her she is too heavy! help!!

I did an article and a video about this very thing: http://su.pr/1XXLX9

I'd say first and foremost, decide if you have the makings of a real friendship or not. Or, if you really only have shared experiences as a connection.

Interestingly enough, the BEST way to 'free' yourself from the people who are weighing you down is to work even harder on improving *yourself*; as you start to change, and shine brighter and brighter, you'll find the people who are unwilling to grow with you will naturally start to fall away. Which creates room for new, better, and more fulfilling relationships! =)

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