Sunday, October 31, 2010
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 296: It's Almost Time!
Wow, I didn't know it has been TEN DAYS since my last post!
Well, first off: the baby isn't here yet, but she's probably going to be here in the next week to ten days.
I've been mixing my time between getting baby ready, and getting in some cave time; watching tv and playing video games with what little time I have left!
I'm looking forward to having another child in this world, though; another little face to look at, another little tummy to tickle. Some of my friends in the past have worried about how they'd have enough love for two kids, but I don't feel that way at all. I'd take ten if I could, and love them all equally; in fact I look forward to having to dig deeper to give even more of myself.
Worst case, I'll keep Lexi and give Kahlan to her mom, lol.
Keep those questions coming to formspring.me/bdavewalters and I'll either write an article or do a video to reply!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/uOfgb
Well, first off: the baby isn't here yet, but she's probably going to be here in the next week to ten days.
I've been mixing my time between getting baby ready, and getting in some cave time; watching tv and playing video games with what little time I have left!
I'm looking forward to having another child in this world, though; another little face to look at, another little tummy to tickle. Some of my friends in the past have worried about how they'd have enough love for two kids, but I don't feel that way at all. I'd take ten if I could, and love them all equally; in fact I look forward to having to dig deeper to give even more of myself.
Worst case, I'll keep Lexi and give Kahlan to her mom, lol.
Keep those questions coming to formspring.me/bdavewalters and I'll either write an article or do a video to reply!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/uOfgb
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Friday, October 22, 2010
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
For all those making the biblical argument against homosexuality - Why Can't I Own a Canadian?
For all those making the biblical argument against homosexuality -
Why Can't I Own a Canadian?
October 2002
Dr. Laura Schlessinger is a radio personality who dispenses advice to people who call in to her radio show. Recently, she said that, as an observant Orthodox Jew, homosexuality is an abomination according to Leviticus 18:22 and cannot be condoned under any circumstance. The following is an open letter to Dr. Laura penned by a east coast resident, which was posted on the Internet. It's funny, as well as informative:
Dear Dr. Laura:
Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate. I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the other specific laws and how to follow them:
When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?
I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?
I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19- 24. The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.
Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?
I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?
A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?
Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?
Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?
I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?
My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? - Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)
I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help. Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.
Your devoted fan,
Jim
Why Can't I Own a Canadian?
October 2002
Dr. Laura Schlessinger is a radio personality who dispenses advice to people who call in to her radio show. Recently, she said that, as an observant Orthodox Jew, homosexuality is an abomination according to Leviticus 18:22 and cannot be condoned under any circumstance. The following is an open letter to Dr. Laura penned by a east coast resident, which was posted on the Internet. It's funny, as well as informative:
Dear Dr. Laura:
Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate. I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the other specific laws and how to follow them:
When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?
I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?
I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19- 24. The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.
Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?
I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?
A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?
Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?
Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?
I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?
My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? - Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)
I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help. Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.
Your devoted fan,
Jim
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Monday, October 18, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 286: Prayer Request!
I am working on something I * really * want to happen, so please send that positive energy my way!
I woke up at 5:30 am; more specifically Lexi woke me up at 5:30 am.
I went to the gym at 730, for a HARD workout; but that proved to be a mistake, since I ended up spending the next few hours helping a friend of mine move furniture around and tear up carpet.
Now, 18 hours later, I am pooped!
I had a technical issue that was making it impossible to upload videos for a while there, but now it's fixed!
I'd meant to sit down to record one tonight, but I'd look like a zombie if I did, so I can only say 'soon' once again.
But...SOON!
O=)
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/HZefo
I woke up at 5:30 am; more specifically Lexi woke me up at 5:30 am.
I went to the gym at 730, for a HARD workout; but that proved to be a mistake, since I ended up spending the next few hours helping a friend of mine move furniture around and tear up carpet.
Now, 18 hours later, I am pooped!
I had a technical issue that was making it impossible to upload videos for a while there, but now it's fixed!
I'd meant to sit down to record one tonight, but I'd look like a zombie if I did, so I can only say 'soon' once again.
But...SOON!
O=)
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/HZefo
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Friday, October 15, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 282: Delays and Distractions
Ok, so I'm * not * going on tour at the end of November, after all; it's been pushed back to January at the absolute earliest.
In a strange way, I am not to upset about it. I mean yes, the trip (and the money) would have been good; but I wasn't looking forward to leaving my newborn baby behind to go on the road.
So...at least now we have some time together as a family!
I'm rethinking my image and marketing strategy for 2011; trying to boil down what I do into a simple and easily understood message, but that's not easy!
Now you see why I'm getting an early start on the new year!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/gbhiy
In a strange way, I am not to upset about it. I mean yes, the trip (and the money) would have been good; but I wasn't looking forward to leaving my newborn baby behind to go on the road.
So...at least now we have some time together as a family!
I'm rethinking my image and marketing strategy for 2011; trying to boil down what I do into a simple and easily understood message, but that's not easy!
Now you see why I'm getting an early start on the new year!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/gbhiy
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 278: T-Minus 30 days!
The new baby will be here in a month (or less)!!!
Today we got a test run; we watched our friend's 3 year old all day,
so we had our hands full with both.
I had an interesting thing happen today: a young couple asked me to do premarital counseling for them; I've never done anything like that, but it's not so different from all the other work I do.
I'm actually looking forward to doing it !
It's been a loooong day; up at 7 am, a hard workout at the gym, and then a day full of younglings.
I am turning over a new leaf and getting up earlier every day (7 am now) so I can go to bed earlier, etc etc.
This year is shaping up nicely, and I'm already 80% through putting together my plan for the best life 2011, lololol!.
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
Today we got a test run; we watched our friend's 3 year old all day,
so we had our hands full with both.
I had an interesting thing happen today: a young couple asked me to do premarital counseling for them; I've never done anything like that, but it's not so different from all the other work I do.
I'm actually looking forward to doing it !
It's been a loooong day; up at 7 am, a hard workout at the gym, and then a day full of younglings.
I am turning over a new leaf and getting up earlier every day (7 am now) so I can go to bed earlier, etc etc.
This year is shaping up nicely, and I'm already 80% through putting together my plan for the best life 2011, lololol!.
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
I got a skin disorder as a kid which quite drastically changed my life.I have recently been trying to change & connect with people again because truth is Im no longer comfortable living as an introvert. How do I become comfortable connecting with people?
The first thing you have to focus on is loving yourself *first*.
The affection and approval you are seeking can't be found in other people, it is a gift you can only give *yourself*
Once you start truly loving yourself, then your insecurities about what others might say or think will melt away. Here is how to start building up your positive self-image:
http://www.examiner.com/spirituality-in-national/emotions-or-you-re-great-and-i-love-you
What do you do when the day comes when everybody seems to be taking blows at you?! That includes your family, your friends, even the girl you've had good connections with for a while and the people you barely know. How do you get your guard back up?!
The best way to 'get your guard back up' is to realize there is nothing to guard against!
The fact is, people's words have what power over us that we give them. No matter what someone says to you, if a crazy person in the street said it you wouldn't be phased at all, so what's the difference?
Reframe the meanings you give to other people's words, and give up your attachments to their opinions. I wrote an article (and video) about doing just that which you can find here:
http://www.examiner.com/spirituality-in-national/why-god-why-or-letting-go-ii
How do I put myself in "receiving mode"? I may be there already and I 'feel' like I'm there and I believe I am receiving, but is there a space I can be in to accelerate receiving?
Two things I'd suggest:
The first, is becoming absolutely clear on what it is you want and *why* you want it.
The second thing is, find ways to involve other people in achieving your goals. The best way to get people to help you is by helping them, first.
I wrote an article on how to be more open to receiving from people and from the Universe, which you can find here:
http://www.examiner.com/spirituality-in-national/q-a-how-do-i-accept-help-from-others-and-allow-abundance-into-my-life
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 276: 10-10-10!
At some point today...twice actually, it will be 10:10 on 10-10-10, how cool is that?
It's been a good couple of days; I got a handle on some issues that were troubling me; and got a whole new insight into my spiritual growth and world view.
I also went to the gym (on time) on Friday, and completed my newly difficult workout regimen; and today a friend watched Lexi for a few hours so Charlene and I could enjoy some soon to be lacking peace and quiet, lol.
I've been revising and adapting my ten year plan, and I like how it's shaping up.
Side note: everyone, EVERYONE should have a ten year plan.
If 10 years seems like a long time, think back to how long ago you graduated high school, or college, or your first child was born, and you'll see how short a time period 10 years really is.
The reality is, the time is going to pass one way or another (God willing) and you'll either be where you want to be, or you won't.
The difference between a happy life full of success and achievement, and one of disappointment that bears a striking resemblance to the life you now, only starring an older you, are two things:
A plan
Working the plan!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/0qjW2
It's been a good couple of days; I got a handle on some issues that were troubling me; and got a whole new insight into my spiritual growth and world view.
I also went to the gym (on time) on Friday, and completed my newly difficult workout regimen; and today a friend watched Lexi for a few hours so Charlene and I could enjoy some soon to be lacking peace and quiet, lol.
I've been revising and adapting my ten year plan, and I like how it's shaping up.
Side note: everyone, EVERYONE should have a ten year plan.
If 10 years seems like a long time, think back to how long ago you graduated high school, or college, or your first child was born, and you'll see how short a time period 10 years really is.
The reality is, the time is going to pass one way or another (God willing) and you'll either be where you want to be, or you won't.
The difference between a happy life full of success and achievement, and one of disappointment that bears a striking resemblance to the life you now, only starring an older you, are two things:
A plan
Working the plan!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/0qjW2
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Friday, October 8, 2010
The 20 Possible Magic 8-Ball Answers
As a resource to 8-Ball developers, I list here the 20 answers you can find on the icosahedron inside an 8-Ball:
Signs point to yes.
Yes.
Reply hazy, try again.
Without a doubt.
My sources say no.
As I see it, yes.
You may rely on it.
Concentrate and ask again.
Outlook not so good.
It is decidedly so.
Better not tell you now.
Very doubtful.
Yes - definitely.
It is certain.
Cannot predict now.
Most likely.
Ask again later.
My reply is no.
Outlook good.
Don't count on it.
One source reports that a newer model of Magic 8-Ball has a different set. I haven't verified these myself, but here are some of the alleged answers:
Yes, in due time.
My sources say no.
Definitely not.
Yes.
You will have to wait.
I have my doubts.
Outlook so so.
Looks good to me!
Who knows?
Looking good!
Probably.
Are you kidding?
Go for it!
Don't bet on it.
Forget about it.
Signs point to yes.
Yes.
Reply hazy, try again.
Without a doubt.
My sources say no.
As I see it, yes.
You may rely on it.
Concentrate and ask again.
Outlook not so good.
It is decidedly so.
Better not tell you now.
Very doubtful.
Yes - definitely.
It is certain.
Cannot predict now.
Most likely.
Ask again later.
My reply is no.
Outlook good.
Don't count on it.
One source reports that a newer model of Magic 8-Ball has a different set. I haven't verified these myself, but here are some of the alleged answers:
Yes, in due time.
My sources say no.
Definitely not.
Yes.
You will have to wait.
I have my doubts.
Outlook so so.
Looks good to me!
Who knows?
Looking good!
Probably.
Are you kidding?
Go for it!
Don't bet on it.
Forget about it.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 273: Tummy Yummies
That title is for you, Yery!
I am enjoying my tasty milk shake after a late night trip to the gym:
Monster Milk protein powder, regular milk, bananas, strawberries, peanut butter, and 2 raw eggs (you can't taste them); mmm mmm yum yum!
I got a vaccination on Monday for Whooping Cough; apparently there is an outbreak of it here in CA, and the hospital is requiring all parent of newborns to get it before they are allowed in the hospital!
I asked her on Monday if I was ok to go to the gym after the appointment, and she said “yes, but your shoulder will be sore tomorrowâ€.
Sure enough, I woke up Tuesday morning with a sore shoulder.
This morning, I was supposed to get up at 7 am so I could go work out and be back home before Charlene had to leave; but I woke up to a sore shoulder, and a black dark, cold rainy morning.
You know what I did?
I turned over and went back to sleep!
***BUT***
Around 9 pm it occurred to me that the day wasn't over yet, the rain had let up, and my shoulder felt better; I could still live up to my commitment to myself and go to the gym.
AND I DID IT!
The moral of this story is, integrity is keeping the promises you make to yourself.
How many times in your life have you wanted to do something, and just didn't? The moment obstacles came up, you made excuses to let yourself off the hook?
I'm here to tell you: you have to take big actions to get big results.
If doing the same old thing was going to get you what you want, it would have done it already!
Commit to yourself to do what it takes, WHATEVER it takes to get where you are trying to go, plant your feet, and get after it!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/s4CZD
I am enjoying my tasty milk shake after a late night trip to the gym:
Monster Milk protein powder, regular milk, bananas, strawberries, peanut butter, and 2 raw eggs (you can't taste them); mmm mmm yum yum!
I got a vaccination on Monday for Whooping Cough; apparently there is an outbreak of it here in CA, and the hospital is requiring all parent of newborns to get it before they are allowed in the hospital!
I asked her on Monday if I was ok to go to the gym after the appointment, and she said “yes, but your shoulder will be sore tomorrowâ€.
Sure enough, I woke up Tuesday morning with a sore shoulder.
This morning, I was supposed to get up at 7 am so I could go work out and be back home before Charlene had to leave; but I woke up to a sore shoulder, and a black dark, cold rainy morning.
You know what I did?
I turned over and went back to sleep!
***BUT***
Around 9 pm it occurred to me that the day wasn't over yet, the rain had let up, and my shoulder felt better; I could still live up to my commitment to myself and go to the gym.
AND I DID IT!
The moral of this story is, integrity is keeping the promises you make to yourself.
How many times in your life have you wanted to do something, and just didn't? The moment obstacles came up, you made excuses to let yourself off the hook?
I'm here to tell you: you have to take big actions to get big results.
If doing the same old thing was going to get you what you want, it would have done it already!
Commit to yourself to do what it takes, WHATEVER it takes to get where you are trying to go, plant your feet, and get after it!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/s4CZD
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
why don't you answer my questions?
I get to each question as fast as I can in the order they are received; if that's not fast enough you can always ask for a refund.
Oh wait: I do this for free.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 271: Redeploying in November
I found out when I'm going back out on the road; luckily enough it should give me a few weeks at home with the new little one before I head out.
This tour will be bigger venues, but a more hectic pace, a smaller van, but hotel rooms every night; so it should be an interesting experience.
Either way, I'm up for the challenge!
Yesterday was a good day, another birthday party; this time for a 6 year old who I've known for his whole life. Lexi really got in there and mixed it up with the other kids, something I was happy to see; they even had a fire engine there (which I have to say was awesome). The kids had a ball climbing on it, and some of us not so little kids had fun running the sirens, hehehe.
All in all, things were good; as I look towards this end of this year I am seeing the beginning of my entire life!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/2pCpG
This tour will be bigger venues, but a more hectic pace, a smaller van, but hotel rooms every night; so it should be an interesting experience.
Either way, I'm up for the challenge!
Yesterday was a good day, another birthday party; this time for a 6 year old who I've known for his whole life. Lexi really got in there and mixed it up with the other kids, something I was happy to see; they even had a fire engine there (which I have to say was awesome). The kids had a ball climbing on it, and some of us not so little kids had fun running the sirens, hehehe.
All in all, things were good; as I look towards this end of this year I am seeing the beginning of my entire life!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/2pCpG
Monday, October 4, 2010
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 269: Weekend With Friends
What better way to spend a Saturday than visiting friends, and playing with babies????
It so happens that I have two friends who live a block apart (but don't know each other), one of which has a 1 year old boy, and the other a 3 year old girl.
Lexi had a blast, but she couldn't make up her mind about where she wanted to stay, and when she wanted to go!
I also got to see the new Batman/Superman: Apocalypse animated movie, so that made me happy; and I finished reading The Lost Gospel: The Book of Q and Christian Origins. An excellent book (that 99% of 'believers' will never bother to read). My only criticism is that even though the book was a great look at the history surrounding the formation of Christianity; but the author seems to have never considered that there may be any validity to the beliefs themselves, or the fact that a valid oral tradition could have existed long before it was written down.
Ah well.
Next up: The Hidden Wisdom in the Holy Bible...so much to do, so little time!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
It so happens that I have two friends who live a block apart (but don't know each other), one of which has a 1 year old boy, and the other a 3 year old girl.
Lexi had a blast, but she couldn't make up her mind about where she wanted to stay, and when she wanted to go!
I also got to see the new Batman/Superman: Apocalypse animated movie, so that made me happy; and I finished reading The Lost Gospel: The Book of Q and Christian Origins. An excellent book (that 99% of 'believers' will never bother to read). My only criticism is that even though the book was a great look at the history surrounding the formation of Christianity; but the author seems to have never considered that there may be any validity to the beliefs themselves, or the fact that a valid oral tradition could have existed long before it was written down.
Ah well.
Next up: The Hidden Wisdom in the Holy Bible...so much to do, so little time!
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://www.google.com/profiles/bdavewalters
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Best Life 2010 Day 268: Practicing What I Preach
I'll tell you a secret about me:
With rare exception, when I disappear you know something is going on.
I didn't realize it had been 4 days since I wrote, I apologize for that; I am still floating like a leaf on the river of life, but the waves have gotten choppy!
I wrote before about my uncharacteristic emotional ups and downs, and that is still continuing; what I realized is that I have to give myself permission to have ups and downs.
Quite often, when things bother me it actually bothers me that it bothers me; like I get mad at myself for getting mad, if that makes sense, lol.
The issue is, I start to believe I am somehow 'beyond' certain things, and I have to make sure I check that ego quickly. Since the reality is I don't get emotional as often, or stay there as long as most, and I definitely don't let my feelings dictate my life (they are a navigation system, not a decision making system).
But, the fact is your feelings, ANY feeling, carries some useful information. Trying to ignore or bury them doesn't work over the long haul, and you'll end up making yourself sick in the process. Listen to what your mind and body are trying to tell you; look for the message in the center of that swirling chaos.
Remember, everything, EVERYTHING your mind and body do are actually trying to help you in some way, if you look at it like an incoming message, rather than this 'thing' that exists in a vacuum, that can help a lot.
So you're scared, or stressed...of what? Feel guilty? What could you have done differently, and how can you make amends?
Go with your gut, it will rarely lead you astray. And I mean the deep, deep, DEEP knowing; not your fears and anxieties that gnaw away at you.
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/qGdZ2
With rare exception, when I disappear you know something is going on.
I didn't realize it had been 4 days since I wrote, I apologize for that; I am still floating like a leaf on the river of life, but the waves have gotten choppy!
I wrote before about my uncharacteristic emotional ups and downs, and that is still continuing; what I realized is that I have to give myself permission to have ups and downs.
Quite often, when things bother me it actually bothers me that it bothers me; like I get mad at myself for getting mad, if that makes sense, lol.
The issue is, I start to believe I am somehow 'beyond' certain things, and I have to make sure I check that ego quickly. Since the reality is I don't get emotional as often, or stay there as long as most, and I definitely don't let my feelings dictate my life (they are a navigation system, not a decision making system).
But, the fact is your feelings, ANY feeling, carries some useful information. Trying to ignore or bury them doesn't work over the long haul, and you'll end up making yourself sick in the process. Listen to what your mind and body are trying to tell you; look for the message in the center of that swirling chaos.
Remember, everything, EVERYTHING your mind and body do are actually trying to help you in some way, if you look at it like an incoming message, rather than this 'thing' that exists in a vacuum, that can help a lot.
So you're scared, or stressed...of what? Feel guilty? What could you have done differently, and how can you make amends?
Go with your gut, it will rarely lead you astray. And I mean the deep, deep, DEEP knowing; not your fears and anxieties that gnaw away at you.
And remember:
Never give up, never give up, never ever ever give up.
B. Dave Walters
*National* Spirituality Column:
http://su.pr/8nfJgO
Relationships Column: http://su.pr/31ml0X
http://ping.fm/qGdZ2
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