If the key to THE SECRET is to 'feel' as if you have it now then whats the point of the manifesting? Is it the end goal to just make you feel good without having your wishes granted and thereby have your life be happier or is there something more to it?

Answered here: http://features.beliefnet.com/areasontosmile/2011/12/qa-finding-love-how-to-apply-the-secret-and-more-video.html

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